What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Tinder date ends up better than I expected
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I matched with this guy on Tinder. I’m attracted to guys with longer hair and especially musicians, and this guy took the cake. From his pictures, I could tell that he played the bass and drums. He was also about 5 years older than me at the time. When we met up, I could tell he was going to have a sexy body. He was about 6’2 and very fit. I didn’t know him at all, but we had chatted through Tinder and then he got my number. That night, he invited me over to his place to come hang out. I had been horny all day and was really hoping to get fucked by this man.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were outside drinking on his back porch, which faces the woods, when we were just talking and having fun. As we were laughing, he pulled me onto his lap and looked up to kiss me. I could feel my pussy starting to drip.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After making out for awhile, he started to reach under my shirt and rub my tits and then he slid a finger under my skirt and rubbed all over my panties. I started to unbutton his jeans and pull out his huge, super thick cock. I started to blow him right there on the back porch. Then he picked me up, my legs wrapped around him, and carried me to his bedroom. He pushed me up against the wall and we both stripped. He being much taller than me, he picked me up again and I could feel his rock solid cock pressing up against my now super wet pussy. He teased me with the head of his dick, sticking it in little by little and then taking it out again. Then he forced all 7 inches of that fat cock inside me as I moaned with pleasure. He kissed all up and down my neck and I was in heaven. He moved us to the bed where we lay side by side, his dick pumping in and out of me as he slipped a finger into my ass. I started bucking into an orgasm, my pussy clamping down so hard that it caused him to dump a huge load of cum inside me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had a great time and was very into it. Felt even better about it the next day. We had a nice little fling, but it ended because he moved. He’s back in town now, and every time I see him I want that cock inside me again
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t talk to many people. I did talk to my current SO, and he thinks it’s hot as hell.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was very passionate and spur of the moment.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not a thing, it’s still my favorite
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It set the bar really high for all of my other hookups
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Musicians know how to fuck. They have that rhythm.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I never thought I’d be into casual sex, but I’ve started to love it since coming to college
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s super cool
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