What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? TORONTO
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Financial services
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Dominant/Very sexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Tinder Date – Unexpected
How long ago did this hookup happen? Less than 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We were matched on Tinder about a week prior to the meeting. On this day I was out and she was out. But we were texting early in the afternoon. Ended up making last minute plans early in the evening to meet afterwards for drinks. Planned to pick her up and to go for drinks at a bar/lounge near by her place. She is West Indian (Trini), 28yrs old, light brown skin, height 5’5, lovely smile, had nice round tits and a plum ass, a handful to grab. She looked good in pics but in person she was in better looking for sure.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We sat down and ordered wine. It was late and the bar was closing, it was last call and we ordered another glass of wine. We went to the car and chatted for about 5min to see where to go or if anything would be open. “She said you’re the driver so you tell me.” I paused and looked at her with a smile. She turned her face straight gave me a nice smile. I just went straight for the kiss by placing my hand behind her neck to pull her closer, we had a very long kiss. I pulled back and gave her smile afterwards. She then returned the favor by saying I liked that, and pulled me closer and we kissed again for little longer. At this point we can see the staff were leaving from the parking lot. I said lets go my place and have few more glasses of wine. She didn’t say no. So we drove 15min to get to my place. She looked absolutely fabulous in her tight shorts and top. I walked with her – holding hands – to the living room. We had a glass of wine and in a while we were making out. My roommate was sleeping in his room. So at some point I said let me show you my room cause she wanted to use the washroom. Once she came out I just took her into my room, and we began to make out. Soon we were in my bed and I was feeling her up through her clothes. She didn’t shy away, unbuttoned her shorts, and she had a sexy pink lace thongs and matching bra. I quickly undressed her and she was just in her laced thongs and bra. I was feeling her D size tits and and nice round perfect ass. She paused and said, “Damn you’ve got me naked.” I smiled and replied, “Then you should get me naked!” She quickly undressed me and placed her hands on my big erect cock. She wanted to take her earrings off, so I turned on the night lamp next to me. She saw my big cock and said, “Wow you’re well endowed.” I gave her licks and kisses all the way from her neck down to her vagina. She pulled me up and moved her body to position my cock below her wet pussy. I entered and she was very wet down at this point, it felt nice in her tight pussy. We were all over each other, we switched different positions and she was on top. She had the amazing body and drove me wild riding me hard. I turned her over and gave her a doggy pound and she quickly screamed and orgasmed. I was still going at it and she went on her back again and we were making out like crazy while fucking in missionary. We did it twice more that night. We ended up cuddling and falling sleep. I dropped her home around noon. We kissed outside of her house again passionately.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Oral, vaginal, different positions we both liked the most. She was bit shy but she liked the dominant side of me. We agreed to meet again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? First ever tinder date and it was slam dunk!! We agreed to meet again and we both agreed sexual chemistry between us was fire to say the least.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My roommate and friends.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Random night and it was unexpected pleasure and she had a amazing body (tits and ass*)
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We had to be little bit quiet cause of my roommate
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I love casual sex and unplanned nights usually ends up a good night of fun.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We ended hooking up few more times, she called me every night and got little bit clingy. Which turned me off a bit. Had to cut it off after few months.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is amazing.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great opportunity to express secrets without a worry of judgements from anyone.
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