Does Tinder Really Work?



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Switzerland
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Does Tinder Really Work?

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a beautiful Brasilan girl with lots of love and tenderness. I stumbled upon her while exploring Tinder “just for fun.”  I wasn’t really look for something. I was just curious after reading about it in the newspaper. So I tried it and one of the few contacts I made on Tinder was her. Needless to day that all the others were looking for something else, mostly a longer relationship.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I don’t know how it really started. We must both have liked our Tinder pics and started some chatting.We soon found out that we were both in rather similar situations, both being in a long term relationship with kids and everything but missing the kick and pure sex. After a long time of chatting and a short talk on the phone we finally got a chance to meet while my wife was on holiday.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were both pretty nervous when we first met. After all it was after a long time that we had a date. Our hookup took place at an apartment a friend of hers let us use, which was very convenient. We met in town and went to the apartment together. We were talking for a very long time and getting to know a bit more about one another while eating something. It probably took very long because neither of us wanted to rush and offend the other. It must have been quite late when we finally ran out of things to talk about, so we got up and started kissing heavily right there beside the table. Some clothes started to come off and soon enough we were both standing there only in our underwear. I needed just a small hint from her and off we went to the bedroom. She was quite afraid of showing her naked body, so our first date took place in almost complete darkness. It was rather intense. We let our fingers and mouth explore one another. After fingering and licking her for some time the moment of truth finally arrived. We were talking about using condoms before the hookup and they were lying there on the bedside table ready for use. But in that moment just a short question and the reassurance that we trust each other led me on, and  I started to fuck her without it. She was extremely tight but also very wet. It didn’t take too long until I came inside her. Feeling a bit guilty about coming too soon, I started fingering and licking her again. It didn’t take too long and she was moaning and breathing heavily.  My cock never went really soft after our first round and her moaning was arousing me even more. I turned her around and started fucking her doggystyle. I lasted a lot longer this time. Slowly I pushed her down onto her belly while I fucked her. After coming again we cuddled for a very long time, exchanging tender kisses and finally fell asleep.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kept in touch after the first date and met again soon afterwards. She come to my place for a night while everyone was away. And then we met again at some hotels during the day.

The next date is already planned although the date is not yet fixed.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Lots of tenderness and sweetness. It feels like beeing teenagers again.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We got almost caught during one of the hookups when my wife tried to call me…

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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