What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Took Virginity Of An English Born Indian Girl While In US Air Force Stationed In England
How long ago did this hookup happen? 35 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was in the US Air Force stationed at RAF Lakenheath in England about 60 miles north east of London. I had met a 21 year old Indian girl who was my age and who was born and raised in England. Though she didn’t come from a traditional family, she had many traditional values drilled into her head and one of them was keeping her virginity. We dated for about 3 months and had done nothing more than some serious kissing at my home.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One Saturday afternoon, it was raining, and she came to my home, but instead of going anywhere, we stayed in and relaxed. She was wearing rather uncomfortable clothing for staying at home, so she ended up using one of my over sized t-shirts and she took off everything else except for her panties. Later, we began kissing on the couch and I noticed her nipples were poking through the t-shirt. Well, I couldn’t resist and began brushing her nipples with my passing hand. As a test, I did it quickly as first to see her reaction, but she seemed to enjoy it, and soon I was fondling her breasts.
As my couch was a bit small, I asked if she would prefer my bed, and she said OK.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
A few minutes later, we were in my bed where I kissed and fondled her breasts. I also began putting my hand underneath her t-shirt so I had full contact with her breasts, and she moaned when I did this. My next step was to play with her vagina, and I tested the waters by rubbing her pussy over her panties and she didn’t protest. Next, I slipped my hand underneath her panties and began playing with her very hairy bush. At this point, I knew that it was just a matter of time before we had sex. I took off my shirt and left my boxers on, but my penis was very hard and was poking out, which she saw. When I saw her smiling, I slid my boxers off and was then naked. I then did something very bold and began sliding off her panties. I did it slowly to give her time to protest, but she didn’t, and soon I was looking at her very hairy pussy.
She kept the t-shirt on, but I had full access to everything and soon I was sucking on her breasts and fingering her pussy between her legs. I must have found her clitoris because as I began to rub between her legs she began to moan and whither around, and I realized she was having an orgasm. She was a virgin (I wasn’t, having lost my virginity 6 months before to a woman in her 50s) and actually wasn’t sexually knowledgeable about her body as she’s never masturbated before, so this was her very first orgasm. After that, she took off her t-shirt and gave herself to me. I gave her more kissing and then tried oral sex, but she felt that was wrong and couldn’t enjoy it. At that point I gave here another orgasm using my fingers and then mounted her. She seemed a bit alarmed when she felt my penis tip at her entrance, and I had to reassure it that it was OK. To be honest, I did think that maybe I shouldn’t enter her because I didn’t have a condom, but I wasn’t thinking.
It took me several minutes to penetrate her and she said it hurt a lot when I finally began entering her. I had to use a lot of my saliva to lather my penis before I successfully entered her all the way. I could feel her tension and that she wasn’t enjoying it. I think she felt too guilty as she realized she wasn’t a virgin any longer, but she didn’t ask me pull out, so I continued thrusting. I was able to last about 5 minutes before I came inside of her. I then pulled out and she seemed disgusted when my semen began running out of her body, and she quickly jumped up to wash up.
When she came back to bed she was very shy and was covering herself with a towel, but she took it off once in bed and underneath the covers. She was upset that she didn’t enjoy me being inside of her, and I held her in my arms telling her it will get better. She also asked if she could get pregnant, and I told her she was probably safe (I was young and stupid and didn’t know any better).
She fell asleep in my arms and when she woke up an hour or two later, it was still raining and she asked to do it again. Being in my 20s, I had a fast reload time, and so we had sex again. I gave her several orgasms using my fingers between her legs and then we had intercourse again. This time I slowed my thrusting down, didn’t push in so deeply, and she enjoyed the feeling better, though she didn’t orgasm with me inside of her. I lasted much longer, maybe 30 minutes, as I kept stopping if I felt like coming. Finally, I came inside of her once again and she seemed to enjoy it this time.
We had intercourse a total of 4 times that day and then I took her home. We began to have regular sex over the next month, but we used condoms every time now.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After a month, she missed her period and found out she was pregnant. I guess coming inside of her 4 times during her peak fertility time did the trick. We broke up after the birth of our son and we lost contact when I returned to the states. I did not pay child support as she came from a rich family who wanted nothing to do with me. They were the ones who broke us up.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Do you regret this hookup? Very much
Why do you regret this hookup? She got pregnant and later broke up with me. I was later reassigned to an Air Force base back in America where I lost contact with her and our son.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Coming inside of her 4 times.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Getting her pregnant.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, birth control was used after this with new partners.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Don’t have unprotected sex with someone you aren’t married to.
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