Unexpected on All Levels



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 15
What’s your race/ethnicity? Armenian
What continent do you live on? North America
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
How religious are you? Not at all
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Unexpected on All Levels

How long ago did this hookup happen? last night

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? [He] has a smirk like kryptonite and big blue eyes that pierce straight into you.. I had previously had sex with this guy 2 years ago and it was a one-night stand but we had always kept a close friendship. He lived a couple towns away. Weeks ago he moved down the road and we have been hanging out as just friends with hardly any flirting. He had told me when he moved here that he wasn’t looking to be involved with any girl so respectfully I would only flirt in occasions where he would do the same.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At first I had been waiting for a friend on this shortcut, but he had not shown up within 20 minutes. Just as I was about to leave [he] came walking up the trail and I asked him if he wanted to hang out, and he said yes. We just started walking down the road, no destination in mind, just goofing around and hanging out like any friends. As we got downtown, he suggested we climb to the roof of an old bar (mind you it is very icy and snowing) So we did. I was walking around looking off the edges and he had sat down. I went over to him and sat on him where he put his hat on me and just stared at me as I looked away and blushed repeatedly… finally I had had enough, literally said, “Fuck it,” and kissed him!

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The kiss led to him raking his hands in my hair turning it into a heavy make-out. I let my hands roam where they pleased starting with his back to the front of his jeans, teasing him but letting him decide to take it further. I stood up and he pushed me against the wall undoing my belt and pants. I was in pure bliss because I simply had not been rejected and I kissed him harder. After he had gotten my pants down he picked me up and fucked me with my back to the wall, never breaking the kiss as I moaned in his mouth. I was utterly shocked  and he put me down and bent me over the ledge, sucking my clit and fingering me… he then sat on the ledge and I rode him scratching his back while he pulled my hair. He came near to finishing and we didn’t have condoms, so he pulled out and I sucked him off as he fingered me – he came in my mouth and then kissed me hard and long

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After that we got off the roof and were freezing our asses off; he had said he was surprised I made the first move and that he was going to kiss me anyway. We walked back to our neighborhood and he told me we should do that again, and seeings I’m suspended he said he was going to skip school and just come over to my place if i was okay with it. I had pursued this boy for weeks and when I least expected it, it happened.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only my friend who lives out of town, she asked me how I could handle the cold and then said GET ITTTTTT

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The surprise and spontaneity of the entire situation.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? THE SNOW AND THE COLD I NOW HAVE.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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