What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? few months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My boyfriend’s name is Will. He was my first serious relationship. He’s white and 6’1″. He has brown hair and brown eyes. He is one year younger than I am and very cute. He has a great ass. He’s smart and funny and a little shy. We had been together for just over 2 years.
The other guy, Matt, was a friend I knew from college. He’s very tall, maybe 6’3 and he’s a biracial black/asian guy. He’s athletic and kind of cocky in a charming way. I wouldn’t say we were super close prior to this but we got along well because we had a similar sense of humor. I think that Will and Matt had met before when we were hanging out with a bunch of other friends, but only very briefly.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Will came out as bisexual to me a few months before this happened. I’m also bisexual, but he knew that when we started dating. After he came out, we started talking about having a threesome with a guy. Specifically, he wanted to be fucked by a guy. We had experimented with pegging before and we both liked it a lot. I liked watching him take a cock. We talked about it seriously, what we’re comfortable with and not comfortable with. We established some ground rules and decided that if we found someone, we would go for it.
I knew Matt was bisexual. I wasn’t really trying to recruit him but it kind of happened that way. We were out drinking with other classmates. We were joking and talking and it came up that my boyfriend and I were interested in having a threesome with another guy in which the other guy would fuck my boyfriend. He was interested. Later, I brought it up with Will, and we had amazing sex while I told him all the things I wanted Matt to do to him. A few days later, when we were sober, I asked Matt if he was still up for it and he said yes so we talked about it and I set things up.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We invited Matt over to our apartment. We drank some beers on the sofa and talked for a little while. Will sat in the middle, between Matt and I. I could tell Will was nervous. I was nervous too, but also really excited. I told Matt that I wanted him to kiss Will. He grabbed Will’s face and kissed him deeply. It was incredibly hot. It felt like the energy in the room had changed. We made our way to the bedroom, kissing each other, stripping and laughing.
Will and Matt sat beside each other on my bed. I got on my knees. Matt had a really great cock and I wanted to suck him off. Matt started to give Will a handjob. I could tell Will was really into it. He was flushed to his chest and he was making these really sexy sounds. It turned me on so much.
I decided it was time for the main event. I told Matt that I wanted to get Will ready for him. I pushed Will so that he was on his hands and knees. I lubed him up and started to finger him. Matt got in front of him, and they kissed while I loosened Will up. By the time I got to three fingers, Will was leaking precum and practically whining but I kept at it because Matt was big and I didn’t want him to get hurt. When I was satisfied, Matt and I switched positions so that Will’s face was buried in my tits and Matt was positioned behind him. I watched Will’s face as Matt slowly pressed into him. I was so wet. Matt started picking up the pace. Will started moaning and Matt got this cocky grin on his face. I couldn’t take it any more so I got Matt to pull Will into his lap. I get on top and slide right down my boyfriend’s cock. I guess he wasn’t expecting me to be so wet because he gasped. We writhed around like this until Will came inside of me. Matt pulled out and Will flopped onto his back. Matt pulled me towards him and fucked me into the mattress while Will stroked my clit and played with my tits. I came so hard and it felt incredible. Then Will gave Matt a sloppy blowjob, while I whispered instructions in his ear. It didn’t take long for Matt to get to the edge. I ordered Matt to come on Will’s face. Then I licked the cum off his face and we all kissed each other. We cleaned up, talked for a while longer, and then Matt left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We woke up and ate breakfast together. It wasn’t too awkward, but it did feel different after. We talked about it, what we liked about it, and we agreed that we should definitely do it again sometime. Later, Will and I had a lot of fun talking about the other things we could try with Matt. It made me realize how lucky I am to have Will, how in love with him I am. I think it solidifed our relationship, and our trust in each other. It’s another fun thing we can add to our sex life. I feel closer to him.
I have positive feelings about Matt. I’m glad that we had that experience with him. The three of us hooked up a few more times after that and each time it’s been a lot of fun. He’s in a monogamous relationship now but if he were ever up for it, Will and I would enjoy having sex with him again. Will and I haven’t had a threesome with another person since Matt, but I expect we’ll plan another one in the near future.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Some other close friends (that know about Will’s bisexuality). They were amused, a little surprised.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I feel like Will and I got closer together, we both enjoyed the encounter immensely, it opened the door to more experiences like it.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. Maybe it’s slightly awkward to see Matt at school but not necessarily in a bad way.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I was already in favor of it, but it really solidified how great it can be even in the context of a committed relationship.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I highly recommend bisexual MMF threesomes to other people/other couples but only if all parties are 100% committed and okay with it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s great!
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