What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 55
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Brisbane
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Retailer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? O
How long ago did this hookup happen? 25years
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 5 years younger than me, a mother of two. Tall, thin, blonde. Nice body, pretty face. She always flirted with me when she dropped in to see her husband who worked for me. He treated her very poorly.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No planning. I went to their home whilst he was at work. I knocked on the door, heart pounding, she said hi would you like a coffee and headed to the kitchen. I stood in the lounge room admiring her legs. She was wearing a cardigan that went past her butt, so I had no idea what else she had on.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Heart still pounding, I went for broke. I walked up behind her put my hands on her hips and gently kissed her neck. She stopped making coffee and stood with her back to me. I continued to kiss her neck and pulled her cardigan up, I slid my left hand onto her erect right tit and my right hand between her legs which she gently opens allowing room to caress her soft pussy. My cock was rock hard and on the verge of erupting. She braced herself against the kitchen since and trembled almost silently in orgasm. No other words were spoken and I left. We never spoke about it again, however, the looks she gave me spoke a thousand words. I got my pleasure having the power to pleasure her. Sticking my dick in her would have cheapened the experience for her. She was a beautiful sexy lady with a shit husband and now she has a naughty secret.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? To this day I masturbate over the memory.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? For me touching that body and giving her pleasure with her having to respond.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Leaving without fucking her. I could have, but I think it would have spoilt the real reason I went there. It was about her.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I really enjoy reading it. More so, the stories of women empowering themselves. For too long women have been shamed for enjoying sex. I love the thought of women fulfilling their wants needs and fantasies.
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