A Rough Wedding

by Alexei Palzous

Gender: Male
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Artist
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: N.A
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Gay
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Queer
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 87
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

A Rough Wedding

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week ago.

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Paid sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this 28 year old man at a house party a week prior to the event, I thought he was stupidly attractive. Tall, strong jaw, thick black hair and green eyes. We exchanged numbers, he knew I had money troubles and asked me if I would attend a wedding with him as his long term boyfriend which he would pay me for. The payment also included me having sex with him, which I was fine with.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As a guest he got his room and once the wedding was over. We were both a bit drunk, he started kissing me really passionately in front of his family & friends. I knew what he was expecting so we went upstairs.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The moment we got into the room, he ripped my clothes off. As far as to send the buttons on my shirt flying around the room. He kissed me passionately and pushed me up the wall lifting my legs around his hips. Suddenly his trousers were on the floor and my ass was getting a rough pounding while I was lifted. Which was without lube I wish it hadn’t of gone on for as long as it did. He was the roughest person I have had sex with. Half way through I realised that he had been as tough as to cause an anal rip. It wasn’t that noticeable during, but he threw me literally across the room onto the bed. Where he began rimming me, then straight back into anal. Even though the amount of pain I was in after it was completely worth it. There was basically no talking but I didn’t care.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms weren’t used but we both had STI tests before hand.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? A beautiful man wanted to give me a really lovely day out  then have amazing sex and pay me for it. How could I not.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We drank probably 2 bottles of wine and 1 champagne during the day. Throw some vodka shots in as well.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well clearly I felt a bit rough, I had a fair amount of love bites and bruises. But emotionally I felt great, at the time I wasn’t looking for a relationship, just good hard sex. I have actually become good friends with him, I might go to family events with him as his boyfriend again. He asked me about this. I like him a lot someone who understands me sexually but knows that not to go to far.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friend, he was jealous he had tried to flirt with the guy before me and got turned away. Must be my Hungarian charm, I said a Hungarian passes through a revolving door right after you but he will come out before you.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? This was consensual and both of us wanted it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Regret no not at all, I regret my anal rip but it didn’t bother me at all during.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was the best sex I’v had all year. The tear slightly annoying but didn’t spoil it. I know I like it rough now, it also made me a lot of confident about getting what I want.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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