What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 75
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? open to sexual exsperience
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Not sure maybe 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Transactional Sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I contacted a woman from a website for nude models. We agreed to meet in a park at 6 am, her husband would accompany her as a chaperone. I had no expectations of a hookup happening.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No planning was involved. We met in the parking lot of a secluded park at 6 am. She was small and neat looking, her husband appeared was big and tough. We walked to a secluded area and she took off her clothes. I started taking photographs for nude art.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Her husband told me she would model with her legs open. I told her to lay on the picnic table with her legs open, she complied. Her husband told her to kneel on the table with her legs open while I took pictures of her vagina. Her husband asked me if I wanted to fuck her. I was very nervous with the situation, and his manner was very forceful. I said I would like to fuck her. She got dressed and we went back to the carpark. I paid her for the modeling. He told her to get into my car and to follow him to their home. During the trip she said I could do anything I wanted to her as long as I didn’t hurt her. When we got to her house, she took me straight into the bedroom. There we stripped and she gave me oral until she got on top and fucked me to an orgasm.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I wanted more
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Never told anybody it was surreal
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having a good sex
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was scared at first
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes I want more
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I would like to fuck her again. I did try to contact her, but she never replied. The husband gave me a glass of wine afterwards, he then asked me, in detail, how she fucked me. It was like we were old friends.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If no one is hurt, and both people are willing, it’s good.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I have looked for somewhere to tell my story.
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