Are Sugar Babies Really Just Sugar Coated Prostitutes?

 

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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Executive
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Are Sugar Babies Really Just Sugar Coated Prostitutes?

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a recent college graduate from a state university. We met on a website known for facilitating sugar baby and sugar daddy arrangements. We exchanged a few emails and then met at a coffee shop to chat for about hour or so.

She is blonde and her face is slightly below average but not ugly. She wears a pair of glasses which may have made her look less attractive. Also, she wears little to no makeup, just like most college students on campus. Her best asset is probably her body. She’s about 5’7 and in good shape. She dressed like a typical college student, jeans, sweater, and a pair of sneakers. She is certainly educated and can carry an intelligent conversation.

She felt comfortable with me and said that she’d go into an arrangement with me. I agreed but we didn’t talk about the allowance in person. After the meetup, we exchanged a few more texts to agree on the price.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A couple more months had passed and we finally found a time when we both were available. She was much more proactive in trying to meet up with me. I suspected that she really needed money.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She came to a hotel room where I was waiting. I could tell that she purposely dressed sexier. She wore a short dress that showed most of her legs with a low cut front and thin straps. But, she still wore her glasses. We chatted awkwardly for a few minutes. I felt that she wanted to move things along so she could get it done and get out. She suggested that we get naked so I complied and lay on the bed. She got on top of me and started french kissing me passionately but, I could tell she wasn’t really into me. She was just trying to act like she was. She then put a condom on me and tried to ride me. It was good in a way that proved she wasn’t a seasoned prostitute. But then again, it wasn’t really particularly enjoyable for me. So, I flipped her over on her back and went down to lick her clit and finger her pussy until she had an orgasm. She wasn’t much of a moaner but I could tell she wasn’t faking the orgasm because of how her body tensed up and her toes curled. Once she finished, I continued to fuck her in until I came as well. I must say that I was very surprised that her pussy is extremely tight.

After we finished, she put on her panties and lay topless next to me in bed. We chatted about nonsense for 15 minutes. I played with and admired her boobs every once in a while. Then, she got dressed and left with the allowance I gave her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We haven’t been able to meet up again due to availability. She still wants to meet me for allowance but, she also said that she’s getting serious with a guy. I don’t think I’ll ask her to meet me again unless I am extremely horny and I have no other FWBs.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to fuck a new girl

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I had to pay her.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? To me, casual sex should not involve money. I’ve paid for prostitutes before and I have no issue with them. I do however struggle with SD/SB arrangements because I feel it’s just sugar coating paid sex. If I truly like a woman, I don’t like paying her money to have sex with her. I would like her to like me as a person, not just someone who can pay her money.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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