Blow & Go

by Nial Cash

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
What’s your occupation? Musician
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

Blow & Go

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 Months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a young lady of Indian heritage, a working girl with a very petite frame and a pretty face. I met her at the hotel she was working from. She answered the door dressed in a fishnet bodysuit which left very little to the imagination. This was my first time meeting a sex worker.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began with me trawling a well know site where sex workers advertise their services. After a short back and forth over text, we arranged the meet and she let me know where she was staying. There was no other planning involved other than I was horny and wanted to cum. It was fully instigated by myself.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After we had confirmed what services I wanted, we sorted the transactional side of things and had a 5 minute general chat to break the ice. She then asked me to remove my clothes, and I did as she asked and laid back on the bed. She started sensually kissing down my chest and stomach as she rubbed my dick to get it hard. Once I was almost fully erect, she started sucking the tip, gradually working my now rock hard dick further and further into her mouth. This felt amazing and was up there with one of the best blowjobs that I have ever received, no lie. I find it hard to cum from oral sex, but seeing as I was paying, I wanted her to work and make me. After about 10 minutes of her sucking me off, I asked if we could change positions and switch to me standing with her on her knees, and she happily obliged. She was so petite, it made my dick look huge and this really turned me on. I asked if she minded me taking control, and she said she didn’t, so I got hold of her hair and started pushing her head down. She took this well and started deepthroating my dick, which I absolutely love. After a few minutes of this, spit was running down my shaft and balls and I was getting close to ejaculating, so I asked her to suck my balls, which she did. I went back to gently fucking her face for a few minutes and she gagged and spit all over my dick. I told her I was ready to cum and pulled my dick out of her mouth. She closed her eyes and tilted her head back as I sprayed her face with my load which looked amazing covering her Indian skin. It was such a heavy load she could barely open her eyes, something we both found amusing! I had specifically asked for this in exchange for penetrative sex as it is often hard to find a partner who is willing to do this during a hookup.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I thanked her, got dressed, and left. I felt pretty great as it had been a pleasant experience, there were no hopes or expectations and I wish them well.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness,

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Totally uninhibited sexual release.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to pay.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I don’t see any issue with it as long as everyone is on the same page.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!