First Hookup



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 69
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Newcastle
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Disability Support Worker
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Many maybe 100+

First hook up

How long ago did this hookup happen? None

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Iranian with the best body and firm breasts. She said she was 35 but may have been a bit older.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was planned through an agency and then via text. We met first in the hotel room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I walked in she said she was nervous and was looking forward to sex as she hadn’t had any for a while. We stripped off and I remember being blown away by her body. She pushed me onto the bed and groped me all over and gave me oral. After a while I pulled away and started oral on her. At my first touch she came and shook uncontrollably. Her pussy was so good I was really enjoying myself. I couldn’t believe it when she came again very quickly and then again. She then wanted me to fuck her, missionary, doggy on the bed and then doggy standing with her supporting herself on the bed. Then back to hard missionary on the bed and we both exploded like one of the best encounters I have ever had. She seemed to be just as satisfied as me and repeatedly said so. The third time she came she said she couldn’t believe how quickly she had come three times and then went on for more. She then jumped out of bed and showered whilst I thought she was just cleaning and would be back. No, it was over. 30 minutes of whacko unbridled passion and that was that. I love a partner to come but I have never seen a woman come over and over. I was ready for another bout but she was finished and I having had such explosive sex was somehow disappointed. Crazy but true. She dressed, cuddled me and said do you want to meet again and of course that is a yes but how to stretch the next encounter to a couple of hours. I can still feel that incredible pussy, so soft and smooth and just look forward to a longer meal which I am afraid may be just as short.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I have a flexible arrangement for about three weeks. How do I feel? I obviously would like to eat and fuck her till I dropped. However that time needs to be stretched. I will be meeting and I will be asking for longer.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only her.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Meeting a woman who clearly has an appetite for sex. I enjoyed the fact that we both were blown away but I was disappointed with the short time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Too short.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I was happy she was happy with my ability.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Just wow.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am looking for more opportunities now and intend to meet with her again and another lady the agency introduced me to.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I am not sure. It did give me a chance to explore intellectually what happened.

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