First Time Getting Paid



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Malaysia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Marketing
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Very straight, probably 10% curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 19
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Time Getting Paid

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s 66, a retired army guy whom I met at a cafe buying coffee. I was on my own, doing work, and he just came up to my table and asked to sit down. Since he wasn’t bothering me, I thought, why not. I didn’t really take notice of him either.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? About half an hour in, I felt his leg feeling up mine and I just moved to the side. Then he quietly came by my left side and placed his hand on my thigh. When I wanted to tell him off, he offered an envelope with 2,000MYR inside and told me he just needed an hour and he stayed a level up. I didn’t know what got hold of me, I just said ok in a quiet voice.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? While walking up the stairs, he placed his arms around my waist and kissed my neck then squeezed my ass. After we enter his room, he lifted me up (mind this i am 70kg but he was bigger and muscular) and brought me to his couch. He immediately undressed me and started kissing my neck down to my chest and stroking my cock.

After everything, he laid down and got me to sit on his face. Not long after, he kissed my lips and said thank you.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I got dressed up and was going to leave, but he told me he would offer another 2k for the next round. He was wanting it the next day and would triple it for overnight.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Peer pressure, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner, Material rewards (gifts, money, drinks, dinner…)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Didn’t share with anyone

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Wasn’t thinking about the security risks.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Cant say anything best about it besides being smoothered by another man.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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