Professional Becomes Personal

by Kyrvy

Gender: Female
Age: 39
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: New Jersey, USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Poly with 2 partners “V”
Religious affiliation: Pagan
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Pansexual Polyamorous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Professional Becomes Personal

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 1/2 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Virtual

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him when I was a cam model and he was initially a client. Our first meeting he was only text driving my performance and after he orgasmed he kept me company and laughing the rest of the night with a unique and twisted, in just the right way, sense of humor.
Over the next few weeks we had a few more paid sessions and he continued to make me laugh and orgasm. And I still hadn’t seen what he looked like.
Eventually he sent me pictures and I was blown away that someone so handsome and fit had been “pursuing” me so relentlessly when I was modeling. I was a size 14 when we meet and I’m at least five years older.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had started emailing and the mutual attraction was palpable. I didn’t want to lose a paying client but I really wanted more and one night we left my virtual performance space for Skype. 
I didn’t intend to have virtual sex with him that night but I still gave him my phone number for texting purposes.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were both visible to each other and started out clothed. He had to be quiet because he lived with his partner but I could speak and read his text and hear his whispers of lust as he’d clench the mic of his earpiece between his teeth and urge me on. 
I stripped out of my clothes and used fingers and dildos to simulate how we would have fucked in person. He has certain needs for very hard, fast, deep thrusting. And along with clitoral stimulation I came over and over and over until I actually squirted for the first time in my life.
After what was probably an hour of intense mutual masturbation he came so hard he had to wipe cum off his neck. And I was drenched with sweat and sitting in a puddle.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No need. We are on opposite sides of the continent.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He makes me feel intensely sexy and wanted in a visceral way. 
At the time I was unhappily married and mostly enjoying being an adult performer, but this was just for us. No money. No strings. No risk. A whole lot of orgasms.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I loved it. Made me feel like a goddess. Watching his eyes roll back as he stroked himself gave me a sense of intense sensuality. 
We’ve had numerous additional online and phone encounters since. Sometimes with months between them. But he can still get me off with his voice alone.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Some very close friends. They didn’t judge and my best friend thinks it was a healthy way to meet my needs while I figured out what to do about my marriage.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Oh hell yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing is I have a super hot man who gets hard thinking about me and can give me multiple orgasms. I don’t have to worry about pregnancy or STIs or cleaning up after him.
Worst thing is our encounters are almost always on his time schedule.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I love virtual sex and toys.

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