S. Korea

by Sailor

Gender: Male
Age: 27
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Florida
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Military
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

S. Korea

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Paid

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Filipino “buy me drink” girl at a bar in Busan. Don’t really remember what she looked like, thought more Korean than Filipino.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a bar, she approached me and I paid for drinks. She instigated it by grabbing my dick through the bottom of my shorts.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We talked about all kinds of things. I was with a group of guys and we all had a girl on our laps. I forget how many drinks we had, but the conversation turned to alcohol and how she liked the sex named drinks. She asked if I liked a drink called a blow job. My reply was along the lines of, never had it but I could use a real one. She said only at a table in the back after we each did body shots. 

I had been hard from her constant handling of me for the last hour, so of course I obliged. She was obviously good at what she did and deep throated me, which was a first for me. I didn’t take long to cum which was part in her mouth and on a wet cloth she had.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was horny

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Lots of alcohol

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left and never saw her again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My wife. She was kinda surprised and asked for details. She was surprised at being turned on by it. She wants to know details if it happens again.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Somewhat at first because I’m married. But came clean.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? My wife’s positive support and understanding about needs.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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