What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 65
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Spain
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Tunnel construction
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Believe in God but have no faith in organized religion
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Versatile – heterosexually dominant/homosexually submissive
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1000’s
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a young (20’s) pretty, slender transsexual (male to female, breasts, and penis) prostitute dressed in a negligee, bra, suspenders and stockings, sheer panties. She was working out of a hotel in Penang in Malaysia and I had made contact via Grindr.
I was excited to meet her, her profile picture was alluring and she looked very pretty – I have had a long-standing interest in the, for want of better terminology, 3rd sex (crossdressers, T.V’s, transsexuals, transgender) people.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We made contact via Grindr, set a time, agreed on cost. As the customer, I was the driving force.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Kissing (all over), stroking (all over), pinching (nipples), slapping (face, buttocks, inside thighs, testicles), spanking as foreplay interspersed with mutual fellatio, I deepthroated her to make her gag and finally prolonged anal intercourse in the missionary, doggie and finally with her riding me to orgasm.
I thoroughly enjoyed the whole experience, she was loving and warm and extremely enthusiastic.
We talked about our lives, Penang, and where we were going next.
We said goodbye warmly and are still in contact with Whats App.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt satisfied both physically and emotionally. Felt positive about it the next day and still four weeks later.
I have no expectations or hopes for this person.
I feel positive towards her and wish her well.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Power / Dominance, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was satisfying physically and emotionally – it was exciting, I had a great time, had a lovely orgasm.
She said she was happy both with the experience and the money.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No – I’m at peace with who I am and my sexuality.
I’m a huge fan of casual sex in all its glory. I am an uninhibited bisexual extrovert exhibitionist.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am a huge fan of casual sex – always have been since the “swinging sixties” when I was an adolescent. I feel that it’s all OK as long as no one gets hurt – I have always been a practitioner of safe and consensual sex.
It has played a large role in my life – I may well be addicted to it.
As for its role in society – that’s a very complex question. I think if people are at peace with it then it’s beneficial.
I don’t think that society moralizing or judging or throwing stones is helpful – surely it is a private thing.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fantastic! Education is the way.
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