What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Lawyer
What’s your current relationship status? I’d prefer not to say, except to say after much reflection I’m content with my choices
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I think I have a high sex drive
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Prefer not to say . But more than my fair share might be a nice way to put it.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
Still Can’t Believe It- She’s Red Hot.
How long ago did this hookup happen? Since 2016
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was in Brisbane for work. I answered an ad on the internet that I stumbled across. From memory, it said 25, exotic, DTF. $300 per hour. I had to google what DTF meant. I replied, not thinking I’d get a reply. she sent me photos that were very impressive. we met at my hotel that night. I was very nervous. I could tell she was gorgeous before she took her clothes off. She wore a black beret and a coat.
She has since told me she is 21. Ahem. I am 45. W.T.F.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I took her to my room and tried not to stammer as I got in the lift. I failed and I stammered. I thought she might be on drugs as she was so calm. I asked her if she was and immediately regretted doing so. we made some small talk. Then she took her top off. I don’t think she was on drugs, she is just unusually calm and confident. She had a small waist, athletic shape, excellent breasts, fantastic hair, gorgeous face, and perfect skin.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I didn’t try to kiss her in case that offended her. I did, however, try to put her in control of the situation by asking her what she wanted to do. She was a great lover. Enthusiastic and skilled. I had to do it doggy style because I knew if I looked at her face while we fucked I would blow my load. I think I lasted about a minute anyway. She was too hot and I was too excited about seeing her gorgeousness and hearing her soft moans. A very expensive minute but very worth it.
Once when we had a session, I went to eat her out and she briefly demurred. it was hot. She has also wore red lipstick and painted my cock with it. That was hot too. the second last time we fucked we stood up and kissed a little. She is a blur of my desire.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We’ve since met half a dozen times and got to know each other a bit better. She now seems happy to charge me $200 for a session where she seems relaxed about it going for more than 30 minutes and we have kissed some more. The last time we met we kissed quite a lot. I can now last more than 5 minutes but it takes significant self-control. I hope I don’t forget our most recent session. It finished with her on top of me with me saying to her “I need to blow deep inside you”. She said, gasping, “I want you to.” I said “say please”, she said “please” and I immediately did just that had a very very satisfying orgasm. It was carnal.
I really enjoy just looking at her and listening to her sexy voice. She is red hot. Recently she came to Sydney where I live and texted me to let me know when she’d be in town. I am very curious about why she seems to want to fuck me when she doesn’t seem to need the money and I’d be stunned if she needs the attention. Try as I might I haven’t made her come yet either. Perhaps she likes the adventure, perhaps she likes my comparatively large cock (so I’m told).. maybe she likes that I very much enjoy eating her out. I don’t know. I wonder if she wants me to be less vanilla like fuck her ass or tie her up or something – or if she likes that way. Perhaps I should stop wanting to know and just accept this magical situation of hotness while it lasts. I am relieved she doesn’t live in my city as I’d go bankrupt. Did I say she is red hot?
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, To cheer myself up, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have told one close friend. he is very envious.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? her hotness and the fact that she keeps on agreeing to meet me and seems to like doing so. I very much enjoy helping her get naked.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I couldn’t last for hours days
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sex is a part of humanity. I really enjoy the good sorts.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex should be embraced by society.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like reading about the good, bad and ugly.
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