Sugar Baby

by Olivia

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Mixed
Current location: NYC
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Sugar Baby

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met my partner online and I knew very little about him before we met up except for how much he made. Before we met I was cautious as I always am with Sugar Daddies to not give too much info away about myself.

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Paid sex

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup was instigated that day via a phone call and was meticulously planned- he requested things for me to wear and even special requests for hair and makeup, which I don’t usually get from clients.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During the hookup I gave him oral sex for 75% of the time and then we had vaginal sex for the rest. He instigated a dynamic of being very dominant- hair pulling, spanking, which are things that I enjoy so I went with it. Generally though he was not a good lover- very lazy and a poor communicator.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did not orgasm but I faked two. He had two orgasms, both from oral sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I wear a Nuvaring and he wore a condom

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Money! He pays more than anyone else.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No- although I wish there was some alcohol to make it less awkward!

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup I felt grossed out only because he was a bad lover. Otherwise, I was proud that I did a great job in the bedroom and that I earned a lot of money.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? This was consensual for both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I do slightly- only because he did gross things like spit into my mouth. But I like what I do and I will probably see him again.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The money was hands down the best thing. The worst was how lazy he was about sex and that he took forever to orgasm. This hookup has just affirmed however that I am in control of my sexuality and that a bad hookup doesn’t last forever.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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