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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Brussels, Belgium
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Technology Advisor
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? more than 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Strange attraction

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is 19, we met on an online chat. She mentioned her preference for a mature man. So we spoke a lot for several days on viber. then decided to meet for a drink.. we met at a bar and ended up in a hotel room.
I felt very excited but she had a lot of questions and also about our age difference

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Nothing was planned. I thought that she may be not that beautiful. She was a slim beauty. I thought we would only have a drink… But quickly and obviously there was a strange and powerful attraction and we started kissing and fondling

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? we went to a nearby hotel and immediately. I went down on her and provided her a couple of enormous orgasms. She wanted her fair share of tasting … We drove me hard – extremely hard. I fucked her in missionnary and turned her on her belly and continued doggy style for a little. She laid on her belly and the view of her nice firm ass made me hard again. I went on top of her and continued to softly fuck her. Feeling my orgasm grow near. I slapped her ass gently and her reaction was a powerful orgasm, which ejected me out of her. I came on her butt.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kind of fight for small details and absurd reasons. We didn’t see each other though we still speak on the tchat forum

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? coming on her butt

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? the fight

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? yes. I was disappointed about how she would fight about stupid things

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? nothing

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? love the stories

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