What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Hairstylist
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10+ but -20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0!
Stranger & a Coworker
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a girlfriend of mine, we were bother servers at the same restaurant. We often worked the same shifts and, as what tends to happen in a restaurant setting, we ended up spending a lot of time together outside of work. My fiancé at the time was in the military and we lived long distance. My friend Kayce* as I’ll call her, was single. She was 5’6, boyish build with straight hips. Short blonde hair and a curvaceous ass and lovely tits that were just bigger than handfuls.
He was an out of towner that stopped at our restaurant with his buddy. They were in town over Memorial Day weekend for a concert. He was 5’8-9, built-ish. Not bad looking, dad body. He told us he was a professional dancer for LaBears, and being 18 at the time I fell for it. I know better now, lol. I’ll call him John*.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had just finished my shift and was waiting for Kayce to finish up. She still lived with her parents despite being 21 and often ended up coming home to my apartment I had by myself when we worked late. I was sitting at a pub table eating some food, and struck up a conversation with John and his friend Andy* from the next table over. I ended up sitting at their table and shooting the shit until Kayce finished. When she finally came over we stayed and talked some more with the guys and I ended up starting a game of Words With Friends with John. Next thing I know, he’s sent me a private message on the app and it was a picture of his dick. It got my blood flowing. Long story short, I ended up suggesting the guys buy us a 30 pack and come back to my apt with us. Kayce’s sister Kayla* was going to come too, and she didn’t drink so she volunteered to dd for the guys and drive them and her sister to my place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We sat around my coffee table playin all the stereotypical drinking games which of course led to truth or dare. The four of us were super inebriated by this point. The chain of events is somewhat fuzzy. But I remember Andy telling me I wouldn’t make out with Kayce, and I told him I would be it had to be in my bedroom. Kayce, John and I went into my room and I crawled on my bed and laid on my back while lance got on top of me and started kissing me. Always having had an appreciation for the female form, I had kissed girls before but never like this. Her lips were sweet and had the after taste of beer and her breath was hot and moist and hungry. I’m a bit of an aggressive kisser and I bit down on her lips and felt John’s hand wrap around my hair and pull, but he pulled away quickly I tore off Kayce’s shirt and bra. I remember her nipples being larger and much more brown than I had imagined but it didn’t stop my from tasting them and feeling them get hard against my tongue. Next thing I knew I was completely naked, and Kayce’s face was between my legs. I remember thinking that this was the craziest, most irresponsible thing I had ever done and I hated how much I was enjoying it and never wanted it to end. I remember registering the faint sound of a zipper and looked over to see John’s girthy cock in his hand. The next moment, I couldn’t stop myself and I wrapped my hand around his dick and stroked. He lifted his eyebrows in amazement and began fucking my hand. I felt a rush of electricity in my clit while John was fucking my hand and that coupled with Kayce’s fingers in my pussy and tongue on my clit I was about to cum apart. “Oh fuck, she’s gonna make me cum”, I remember saying, and as I start moaning and feeling the build up of heat and tension in my pussy, I feel warm liquid spill into my hand and I look over to see John cumming as he watches me cum.
It all happened very quickly. And I woke up in my bed the next morning naked and alone and hungover lol.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I felt dreamy. I felt in charge of my life and like a woman who had ahead a taste of what pleasure could be beyond monogamy and heterosexuality. The issue was, I was in a monogamous relationship. I knew it was wrong. Even approaching those men in the restaurant was wrong. I knew what I was doing and the decisions I made could’ve ended much worse. I never saw John or Andy again. He messaged me once on WWF and wanted to see me again when he was in town but I blew him off. I’ve tried to start a couple of games with him over the years, to no avail. Kayce and Kayla though I am still fb friends with, lol. Kayce told me she was totally blackout drunk and didn’t remember anything, so I dropped it not wanting to make her uncomfortable. But several months later, when drunk, she revealed to me and her then boyfriend she remembered everything, so who knows.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened,
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve only ever told my very best friend. She just laughed. She’s not judgy like that.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Only because I wasn’t single. And I wish I was a little less drunk, ah well.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I learned new things about myself. Group sex turns me the fuck on.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My nagging guilt after the fact.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I used to think I was straight. I now know it’s a sliding scale that goes in circles and loopty loops. Some days I’m a little more straight than others.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve had a lot of casual sex. Not a lot of GOOD casual sex. I know now I’ve used casual sex as a coping mechanism. I did it because I thought I needed to to feel free. I’m in a monogamous relationship now, but if I’m ever single again I will explore non monogamy. It may or may not work for me, but I’m interested.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love having an outlet for these stories, albeit this is the first one I’m sharing. Also makes for great content when I need a release but can’t watch anything video wise. =]
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