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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30s
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA, San Diego
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Stranger Caught Me Rubbing My Pussy In The Dunes.

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This was a total stranger. A guy in his late thirties or early forties.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was on a work trip to a Spanish island and had a few days off work. I took myself out to the dunes and stripped off, like I normally do in the beach. After a while I started to get a little horny being naked and out in the open on the sand and started to stroke my nipples, which then led to me touching my clit.

Then this guy walked up over the top of the hill and caught me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He shouted at me. Didn’t catch what he said. But I stopped and sat up. He said what I was doing was a criminal offence and that he would report me to the cops, unless he was allowed to take picture of me while I carried on masturbating. I did agree and he had me touching myself in all positions while he took pictures. Kneeling up, on my back and in doggystyle.

He told me that he wanted to ‘give me a feeding’ while I touched myself on my knees, so he put himself in my mouth and started moving his hips back and forward. He came on my ass and back while I was still touching myself.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He just finished and slapped my ass a few times and left.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Submission / Relinquishing power, Peer pressure, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. My husband still does not know.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I’ve since done similar things.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I do regular trips and since done similar things.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? First time.

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