What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sunshine Coast
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Receptionist
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 123
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Stranger Sex At Camp
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were average to good looking guys that were a lot younger than me. I had seen them around the camp grounds, but had not spoken to them.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was late in the evening on our 1st night at camp and I was a bit drunk and high after a few hours around our camp fire with my husband. It was late, and time for me to shower and get ready for bed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was at the shower block, and since it was late, I thought I’d be the only one in there, but someone else was in one of the cubicles already. So, I just disrobed and started my shower in my cubicle. As I was finishing showering, I could hear that the other shower was still being used and that someone else had come in as well. I opened my cubicle door and went to reach for my towel. That was when we both saw each other, stark naked. It was a guy of about mid 20’s standing there, butt baked, with a decent sized appendage staring at me. I asked what was he in here for and he proceeded to tell me that I was actually in the men’s showers.
I couldn’t believe it, and I was so embarrassed, I stepped back into the cubicle. The next minute, this young guy was in front of my cubicle, still naked, and with his dick now fully erect. He tells me not to be embarrassed and he continues to stand there and casually talk to me as if this was normal. This guy then puts his hand on his dick and starts to slowly stroke it. He asked me if I liked it and said I could take over if I wanted. Now, I had never been unfaithful in 15 years of marriage, and had only ever had the 1 guy before I married my hubby. I’m on my 2nd marriage.
I find myself reaching for his penis and I grab it. It was so hard and thick, my hand couldn’t go all the way around. I started to pull it for him, and then he put his hands on my shoulders and I could feel the pressure on them as he motioned for me to kneel down. I found myself obeying him. I put my lips around his thick penis and proceeded to suck it as best I could. I liked up and down its shaft, and sucked on his big balls. I was getting right into it and realised my pussy was dripping wet. He stood me up and moved me toward the benches, leaning me over so my butt was facing him and my hands were supporting me on the bench. I felt his dick at my pussy and he pushed it into me so easily. He then proceeded to fuck me. He was thrusting so hard, I could feel it way up inside me.
While he was pumping away, I realised we weren’t alone, when the other shower turned off. This young guy, who’s name I don’t know, was still pounding away and not missing a beat. He then withdrew and went back in again, but I realised it wasn’t the same guy. I turned my head and another young guy was now fucking me. He pounded me hard and fast for a few minutes, when he suddenly plowed in hard and emptied his balls in me. As soon as he pulled out, the other one put his big one straight back in and continued where he left off, saying that he loved a sloppy fucked pussy. He pumped for another few minutes and released a massive load of cum in me. The whole scenario was over in about 15 mins and these 2 guys left me there with an extremely well fucked and full pussy.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the initial hook up, I went back to my camp to find my hubby had gone to bed. He was passed out and sound asleep. I sat up for a short while at the fire, just continuously thinking about what had just happened. It really started a fire inside me and I let them 2 young guys fuck me another 6 times each over the next few days and hubby was none the wiser. I had never felt so alive.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Not at all
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They were too out of it / passed out / asleep and therefore unable to give consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my hubby what I had been up to after about 12months. I had slept with another 5 guys in that 12 months.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Is set my life on fire, I have never felt so good.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Sometimes I feel a bit sad for my wonderful, loving hubby.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Love it in every way.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I have now slept with over 120 guys and a lot of them on multiple occasions. Some are still a FWB’s after all these years and regularly call on me.
My hubby knows what I do and is happy for me to continue.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love casual sex. There’s no love involved as that is solely for my husband. I’ve managed to keep it secret, but have told my sister recently, so I could have another to talk to.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fantastic avenue to get things off your chest and see that you’re not alone.
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