What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Self employed
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Kinky is best
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1. Only my husband
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I didn’t know any of them at all. I went to an adult sex toy shop for videos and a new toy.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was my husbands 40th birthday. We went into the city for a night alone without the kids to celebrate. Our hotel had a hot tub and was quite nice but had no pay per view. After a nice supper, I thought I’d surprise him with a present. We went to a nearby sex toy and video shop where I bought a vibe and a video to watch in the room later. There were video booths at the store that you could preview and he wanted to check them out. We walked in and realized it wasn’t very big with just one bar stool although you could’ve fit two. I sat on my hubby’s lap and watched the video. I noticed a little doorway on the wall and assumed it was a gloryhole.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Not long into the movie, a white penis emerged from the hole. I was shocked at this point but I could tell that my husband was into it. He asked me to stroke it. I told him no way but he begged and eventually, I gave in. It instantly got hard. He began to caress my body while telling me how lucky the unknown guy is to have such a beautiful woman stroke him. He kept saying things to encourage me to continue and eventually he was fingering me under my dress. Soon, we’ve all got a good rhythm going. He told me to get off his lap and pulled his pants off and got rid of my underwear. He began to have sex with me while I stroked the other guy. He’s not going fast at all but a nice slow tempo while he tells me how this is the best birthday ever. Then, he asks me to suck the stranger. Being that this is the only the second penis I’ve ever touched I’m now quite curious and horny so I agree. It was quite erotic. After 20 years of just being with my husband I was now giving a BJ to a complete stranger. I didn’t even know what he looked like. Soon the guy announced he was gonna come and I pulled off and jerked him until he came. He didn’t produce much and it dribbled onto the floor. Soon the penis was gone and now it was just my husband and I having sex. After a few minutes, another penis poked through the hole and my husband told me to take him too. I began stroking and soon had him inside my mouth as well. He didn’t last long and was courteous enough to warn me so I could jerk him to orgasm. He shot quite far and some landed on me. My husband continued his slow tempo inside me and I put both my hands on the wall for support. It seemed like a long time and then finally another penis popped through the hole. It was a black penis this time and was substantially bigger than my husband. I grabbed it and began jerking and it was soon hard and big. Then started sucking. The guy was moaning a lot and thought he might orgasm so I quit sucking. When he didn’t shoot for awhile I started jerking with one hand and sucking again. The guy was starting to talk and say how good I was. Then he pulled out his penis, put his face in the opening, and asked if he could lick me. The hole was big enough that half your face could fit into the opening. My husband enthusiastically said yes and spun me around and told me to sit on the small table which he pulled up to the hole. I spread my legs and held them up and back from behind my knees and scooted up to the hole till I was tight against the wall. I immediately felt his tongue on my vagina. It felt very good even though the positioning was awkward. I rubbed my clitoris and he kept licking and then I felt him put his fingers inside. My hubby was supporting my upper body and encouraging the stranger to continue to pleasure me. The stranger then took his fingers out and the man was soon trying to push his penis in me. I panicked a little and told my husband what was happening. He said to go ahead if I wanted. I allowed the man to penetrate me. It wasn’t long before he was completely inside me and I could definitely feel the size difference. I had an orgasm very quickly. He didn’t last long either and gave one final push and ejaculated inside me before he pulled out and left. I felt very excited and worried at same time because there was no condom.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt very excited and guilty at same time. Thankfully my husband enjoyed it and wants to do again. I’m not sure.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Didn’t want to disappoint my partner, Material rewards (gifts, money, drinks, dinner…)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my husband

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? Cheated for first time

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Unsafe sex

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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