Current location: Australia
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One Night Stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him on tinder so he was a complete handsome stranger, although some of my friends do know him but we have never met before. We met in a bar in the afternoon. I didn’t go to meet for sex, more to see what they were like with no preconceived ideals or expectations.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? we had a couple of beers and as i had to work that evening rather than carry on drinking he suggested a cup of tea at his place.
as soon as i walked through the door he pounced on me and i responded. we had discussed where our dating heads were at previously and both were happy to be single and not in a relationship and interested in making friends.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? he went down on me and performed oral sex and then bit me several times really hard on my inner thighs and shoulder then pulled my legs up round his neck and we had penetrative sex then he came on my stomach and chest and we lay there for a little while. then i left to go to work. during sex we both agreed how it was good to have sex with a stranger in the afternoon.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? yes we both did.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? we used no contraceptive and he pulled out before he ejaculated.
he said he was clean, as i am.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? i didn’t plan on it it happened, he instigated it and i responded as it seemed like a good idea at the time.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? 2 x beers no drugs so basically sober.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? i knew that i wouldn’t have sex with this person again. i have quite bad bruising on my inner thighs and shoulder and i’m not really into biting that leaves marks. they messaged me after to say hi and possibly arrange another hook up but i said i wasn’t into biting, they apologized and then unmatched me on tinder so we will definitely never hook up again.
i feel fine about them and think they are just into stuff i’m not.
i do feel slightly naive. i should have known it wasn’t a cup of tea, rather a “cup of tea” we were going to his place for.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? several friends, generally they knew i was okay about it and found it a bit funny.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? i didn’t expect it, but consented. I didn’t want to be bitten though.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? best thing was the oral sex and resulting orgasm coupled with the fact that it was a bit exciting as they were a complete stranger.
worst thing was the biting
this has changed the way i look at casual sex – before i believed casual sex with a regular partner and a stranger left me feeling sad or didn’t result in orgasm but i now believe if i’m going to have casual sex it should be with a stranger or if regular – someone that i don’t want anything to develop with.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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