What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Solicitor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Strip Poker Foursome
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Myself (blonde, short hair, slim) and hubby Dave (dark haired, slim) with Marie (dark hair, slim) and Chris (slim dark hair).
Marie was single, as was Chris. Both were friends of ours. We invited them to ours for the evening hoping that they might get on well together.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No planning was involved. We played cards (stud poker) and Chris said, “Why not play strip poker?” Nobody took him seriously but Marie said she was game for it so I and Dave agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Eventually both us girls were down to our bra and panties and the guys were down to their underwear. I lost the next game and Dave suggested Chris remove my bra, he did so facing me and he stared at my breasts as he did so. Marie lost the next and Dave removed her bra. By now the bulge in the guys’ underwear was very apparent. Dave lost next and he removed his pants after some persuading. He had a full erection. The game ended there and I told Chris to remove his pants. He also had a full erection. I was surprised when Dave suggested I touch Chris. He was very hard and I started to give him a handjob. I then saw Marie do the same to Dave. Chris stared to feel my breasts, Dave nodded he was ok with that and he started to feel Marie; he then started to finger her under her panties, Chris did the same to me, Chris said he was near cumming, I carried on stroking him and then he shot out his semen – a load hit my breasts and the rest went on my thighs and hand. Marie was now moaning as Dave fingered her quite hard, I cleaned up with some tissue. I was beginning to enjoy Chris feeling me. Dave then left Marie and came to me, he laid me on my back entered me and we had sex. Chris started to finger Marie, who stroked Chris until he began to get hard again. Marie then had an orgasm, Chris was fully hard again and entered her, he was really pounding her and I felt a bit jealous. I urged Dave to do me hard and he obliged, giving me an orgasm as he shot semen into me. We then watched Chris until he emptied himself into Marie.
We then cleaned up and had a drink.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cleaned up and had a drink. We all had an orgasm and Chris had two. He said it was a long time since he had had sex and quite a while since he had cum.
It was a bit embarrassing and Chris kept asking for a repeat event but Dave and I agreed it was a one-off. Marie was happy for more and did in fact get involved with Chris.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Felt embarrassed
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Made a man other than my husband cum and watching Chris and Marie have sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Afterwards it was a bit awkward.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Views haven’t changed
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting
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