What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Denver
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She and I worked at the same summer camp, and while we hadn’t spoken very much, I thought she was very beautiful. She was warm, always smiling, and very endearing. She had a fantastic body, nice hips and a great butt (which is a definite plus for me).
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? While I was eating breakfast I noticed that she was walking around in the vicinity of my table. I stood up and pretended to be making my way into the kitchen so that our paths could cross. I told her good morning, and we had a small conversation. I could tell that she was interested by the way her eyes were lighting up and the way she was smiling. I was completely drawn in. I suggested that we have a cup of coffee some time together in town, and she agreed. I asked her if she was free that night, and we made plans. While we were parked after coming back to camp that night, I kissed her. She didn’t seem to be a very forward “take the reins” kind of person, but she proved me wrong. She told me she wanted to get in the backseat. Once there, she straddled me, took her shirt off, and we made out. With fellow staff coming back to camp around that time, I suggested she come back to my private cabin. We were both excited and I remember the darkness and the nip in the air added to the thrill.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Immediately I told her that I had to go down on her. She tasted wonderful and after she came she asked me if I had a condom. I remember being surprised that she was so open to having sex on a first date. She must have really struck me as a sexually conservative person. She played with my cock and told me that I was going to be a challenge, and warned me that I might have trouble fitting inside her, to which I thought, “thanks for the compliment, but I think we’ll be all right.” It turned out to be a big challenge, with me struggling to fit the head of my penis inside her. I got the sense that this could be a really painful experience for her, but she reassured me that all I needed to do was push in hard, and it would be fine. When I did push my way inside I let out a big “WOW,” to which she replied, “Yep,” which made us both chuckle. She was very tight and we made love slowly, with me sucking on her nipples and she playing with her clit. She built up to another orgasm, and let out a shrill cry. It was such a quiet night at camp that I was sure everyone in the other cabins could hear her, but I wasn’t about to tell her to stop. A few minutes later I climaxed, and we lay together and cuddled. She told me that she liked how I enjoyed giving oral sex, and that I could finish inside of a condom. She said she had only had one partner before me, and I assumed those two things were different with him. She stayed a while that night, and then I walked her back to her own cabin. I recall her standing in my cabin, nude, searching for her clothes, and me remarking that she had a beautiful body, pulling her close, and kissing her. We met up about three nights a week from then until the end of camp – about five weeks.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was infatuated afterwards. I loved seeing her during the day (which was very rare) as much as during the night. After camp ended we said goodbye, but said that we’d keep in touch. A week later she called me up and said that she had some regrets about our fling, that her friends were judging her, and that our separate religious beliefs precluded us from continuing. A few months later she insinuated that none of that mattered, and that she was open to seeing each other again. By that time I was in another relationship and I didn’t treat her very well.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t speak with anyone about it while it was going on. It would be very frowned upon to have members of the opposite sex visiting after hours.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Wild, thrilling sex in the mountains.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? How I chose to act towards her after it had ended.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? People can change their minds about who they are and what they want very quickly.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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