What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Midwest US
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Summer Night At The Club
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 Weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a gorgeous woman in her late 30s. Full lips, pretty smile and really sexy eyes. Her legs were long and alluring and she had great breasts. She was the whole package in a sexy little yellow summer dress.
She, let’s call her Sarah (not her real name). She was a friend of a friend and we had never met before.
I was instantly attracted to her and picked up a similar vibe.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My wife was out of town for the weekend. Our mutual friend wanted me to go to a party at the local country club where we are both members. I really wasn’t interested, my friend is a slight tease but nothing ever happens, and I just wanted to chill out. At the last minute, I decided to go to the party.
When the friends arrived I was the lucky guy. It was me and 5-7 women hanging out at the event with food, drinks and live music. Most of the women in the group were beautiful but Sarah was a cut above the rest. The chemistry was immediate and we hung out most of the night without making a big deal of it.
At one point my mutual friend pulled me aside and said she noticed Sarah being inappropriately forward with me. She asked if she should say something to Sarah. I played it off like I hadn’t noticed, I loved the attention. I could tell my friend was agitated by the situation most of the night.
When things finally wrapped up the club was closing and Sarah and I were among the last three in the group. Her friend went to the restroom and Sarah asked me what I was thinking. I said I was thinking of going to her place. She gave me her number and address.
I went home to let the dog out and drove to her place while she dropped off her friend.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Sarah answered the door completely naked. I didn’t think I could have enjoyed looking at anything more than her sexy legs in that sundress but I was wrong.
We instantly locked lips and I pushed her down on the living room floor and went down on her. I wanted to make her orgasm with my tongue but she had other ideas, we were soon upstairs in bed and she wanted to fuck.
She was so sexy I didn’t last long, pulling out and coming on her stomach. Luckily, she was smoking hot so I stayed hard and we kept going, cum sticky between us. I came twice more that night. We used about every position and it blurs together. One thing I remember is how sexily her ass jiggled while fucking doggy style.
I pulled out all three times that night.
We slept a few hours and then in the early morning, I was horny and started rubbing her pussy. She woke up and we fucked again. Again the details run together but I clearly remember how sexy she was on top of me, breasts swaying as we fucked. I came inside her this time.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After our morning sex, I didn’t stick around long. She walked me to the door, still buck naked, and I kissed her on the forehead before driving home.
I was exhausted all day but it just reminded me of how I burnt the energy so I was smiling all day.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No One
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had a great night of fucking with a gorgeous woman.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. I was exhausted the next day but even that was a reminder of the fun I had.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She was a lot of fun to hang around and even more fun to fuck. I should call her the next time I have a little freedom.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is an important part of life. I wish society were a little more accepting of it done properly.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is a great project. It really opens my eyes to what is actually going on behind closed doors.
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