by Boss man
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Harare, Zimbabwe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Executive
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was an attractive black woman in her early 30’s. Her body was the most attractive thing I had ever seen. In Africa, we love women with large behinds, and she definitely had one of those. She had a big round bottom, a small waist, a flat-ish tummy, and an average face. Her name is Linda.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was literally just driving to see some friends of mine on Sunday morning, and I just so happened to pass this lady walking at the side of the road in the opposite direction to which I was driving. I have a very quick eye to what I’m attracted to, so I slowed down a short distance from her for a closer look. I looked once, twice, then three times, and on the third time, I turned my head to see her giving me a half smile as she noticed my attention on her. This was enough for me to stop the car, put my hazard lights on, and ask her if she needed a ride to go somewhere. She was slightly surprised by this, but she laughed and obliged and asked if I could take her to the nearest taxi rank. On our way there, we chatted a little and I began to full on flirt. She seemed to really like this and she flirted back. We arrived at the rank and exchanged numbers. I had planned to continue flirting with her via WhatsApp, or some cheap online messaging platform, and possibly meet in the coming weeks for a hookup. I dropped her off and proceeded with my day. Later in the day, after lunch with my mates, I saw an incoming call from Linda. It took me back a little, but I went along with it. We chatted and organized to meet up again that day. This is when I knew we were going to fuck, so I went to buy wine and weed. I drove to her mother’s house where she was staying to pick her up. I got lost a bit, but I eventually found her place. I then asked her where she wanted to go, and she laughed and said she had no idea. I suggested we hang out and have a glass of wine by a lodge. She got shy and a bit apprehensive, but she ultimately agreed in the end. On the way to the lodge, we spoke about life and she told me she has one child and that the child’s father (her man) is out of the country for employment. I got the vibe that she was a little lonely, horny, and looking for some excitement. I was keen to give her what she was looking for.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We arrived at the lodge. It was clean, had a good shower with hot water, a large space with a king size bed, and a TV. We continued with our conversation, drank the wine, and smoked the weed. We then both undressed and admired each other’s bodies whilst touching. She gazed at my cock and told me how big it was, which turns me on every time. I played with her large firm ass, and I also appreciated her cleanly shaven pussy. She proceeded to suck my cock for about 20 minutes, which we both enjoyed thoroughly. We then fucked, and we finished off with my favorite position on the floor. I pinned her down with her fat ass up and pile-drove her until I came. We took a shower together after and fucked a second time. I didn’t nut the second time, but it was still fun. I then bought her some chicken and chips because she was hungry after the event. And then took her back home.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I knew I would never see her or speak to her again. We both wanted it to be a one time thing, no emotional attachment.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The randomness of it all. Spontaneous, mutual attraction and fun.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I believe men are driven by ego and moments like these definitely fuel my ego. It’s great.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I will have good memories of this when I’m old and grey and unable to satisfy any more woman.
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