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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a quiet, nerdy asian girl. Curvy figure but usually wore baggy clothes. Big into anime and videogames. I had known her for over 10 years. We would never hang out one on one, but we were in the same friend circle growing up. I liked her well enough but we were never really good friends, just acquaintances.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a friend’s party across the street from her house. I noticed her looking at me a bit after I took my shirt off to go in the pool. We hadn’t seen each other much since I’d entered college and I had been working out for the past 2 or 3 years. Hooking up wasn’t even on my mind, I was just hanging out with some good friends. As the hours passed, people started to get a little more drunk. She said I needed to try this rum she had at her place. I didn’t want to leave the party so I said maybe later. She kept asking me and I said sure, why not. Just a quick drink before getting back to hanging out.
She takes me to this little house in her backyard. Not sure the term, its a little one room shed where people would smoke. She sits me down and grabs the bottle and pours me a drink. I take it and she pours me another. She was kind of pushy and I realize that she’s trying to get me drunk. As I take the second shot she puts her bare foot in my lap and starts rubbing my cock. This surprises me, she laughs and asks if I’m alright. I was enjoying myself, I had never been that into feet but this was nice. She gets down on her knees in front of me and then looks embarrassed and asks if I’m clean. I say yes and then she unzips my pants.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I haven’t had a bj like that ever since. it was like a deep throat porn. She was gagging, moaning, sucking on my balls, and slapping her face with my cock. At one point she stopped entirely and made me beg her to keep going. That really turned her on. She also pulled up her shirt and let me feel up her tits, which were a lot bigger than I had realized. I lasted about five minutes. If I was sober it probably would’ve been about 30 seconds. When I told her I was about to cum, she took my entire cock in her mouth and massaged my balls as I shot down her throat. It was unbelievable. She sucked and kissed my cock clean and said that my cum tasted good. I was completely shocked that this girl I had known for all these years had done this out of nowhere. I zipped up, wanting to stick around so I could fuck her. Instead she suggested that we get back to the party. It was a really weird experience but I loved it.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Turns out she had a boyfriend, a guy I kinda knew in high school, so I felt a little bad. If she were single I would have tried to met up with her again. By the time she was, I had a steady girlfriend. It was messed up to cheat on her bf, but the head was so good I can’t say I regret it. I haven’t spoken to her too much since then, just occasionally at parties.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I ended up telling one friend about it years later. I don’t think they believed me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A+ blowjob skills

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being able to hook up with her again

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think that some people can handle it and some can’t. Obviously you shouldn’t be blowing guys behind your boyfriends back.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it.

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