What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? Nz
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Co director
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 49
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Many
Surprising first night at a swingers club
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a beautiful, tall, curvy 29 year old blonde. Flat stomach, curvy hips, perky medium sized breasts. Long long wavy white blonde hair.
Her partner who was also there was medium height, attractive, skinny, dark with a beard.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well! It was quite a story! I have a couple I see intermittently but regularly. We hadn’t caught up in a while due to various circumstances. We planned to catch up a week ago but it got canceled at the last minute due to childcare issues. So they then posited that we could meet the next week at a sex club. They said that another couple they called the young uns would come too. They’d met once before and had a semi-foursome, I think girls only, soft swap?
I agreed although I already had something on, it was a dinner with some friends but we were scheduled early.
On the night I met my 2 girlfriends we had dinner and wine, then I made excuses said I needed to get home but instead I headed elsewhere and met the couple and the other couple their friends.
We all went into the club together, and ended up at the bar, drinking and chatting. Nothing was happening. After a while M (man of my couple) said let’s have a walk around. As soon as we were out of the bar area he told us that he’d left because his female boss had just arrived. He was totally freaking out and said he had no option but to leave. We talked a bit then agreed I would stay as a single female just to see what happened. They left and I thought I might have another drink, watch whatever then leave. I ended up sitting at the bar with the young couple and talking to them about my set up with the other couple. Quite quickly she said, we’d be keen to hook up but no vaginal penetration with him. She is lovely I said I’d be keen.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I turned away for a minute, when I looked back she was topless. She had beautiful breasts. Her partner and I kissed and licked her nipples. She suggested we go upstairs to a bed area and we did.
She was topless with a white skirt, he and he and I were still fully dressed. When we got to a bed area we talked a bit and drank then I asked her to unzip my dress. I shook it off and under I was wearing a black sheer bustier, suspenders and stockings. We started to kiss and I pushed her onto her back. I kissed her and sucked her nipples. He removed her skirt. She was stunning naked. She’s a big girl, tall with curvy hips, a flat stomach, and the most beautiful breasts. She’s young and firm and beautiful. I had been with 2 women before, both in their 40s. She is 29 and divine. We kissed and kissed and she has a beautiful mouth, I loved it. Then I went down on her, she has a gorgeous smooth pussy, I licked her and fingered her and when I looked up about 10 people were watching us. She was sucking his cock at the same time.
Then she and I sat up and both sucked his cock alternately. He was only semi-hard he said he was nervous with an audience. Then she asked me to lie on my back and I did. She said is it ok if I take your knickers off I said yes please. She said can i lick you I said yes! She said sorry if I’m not very good I’ve only done it once before. But she was fantastic and I was writhing and moaning and when I threw my head back and opened my eyes I saw all the people watching us, which made it extra hot for me and I came. She moved up so we were face to face and she said, did you cum, I’m not sure, and I said I did and thank you and we kissed and kissed. She whispered to me you are beautiful I would love to see you again, don’t know if I can, don’t know if he will be ok with it…. But your pussy tastes so good and your body is so beautiful I hope we can. It was an amazing experience honestly I couldn’t believe this beautiful young woman wanted me as much as I wanted her. I forgot about the audience when I was holding her and kissing her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After this I said I’d better check my phone – babysitting etc – you have to leave your phone at reception so I put my dress back on but unzipped and walked to reception, no one was manning it but then a patron walked in wearing a mask (it was masquerade but not everyone was wearing a mask) . I said hi, sorry I’m not on the desk in case she thought I was staff. She said nothing at all I thought how weird, but then left. I walked around and enjoyed watching people fucking. I could see why they’d liked me and the young girl, everywhere it was just couples, no threesomes, no girl-girl, so I guess we were a novelty. I found the young couple fucking in a far corner, he can’t perform with an audience. They handled me though so I watched them fuck then gave them both a kiss and said I was going home.
I walked down the stairs to the reception and passed the silent masked woman I’d encountered in reception before. I looked at her and it suddenly dawned on me. I stood in front of her open mouthed and she took her mask off. She was one of the 2 friends id had dinner with before the club. She’s married. We just said wow to each other. She said we need to talk but right now I’m going home. I said me too and we agreed to catch up for a talk soon!!!!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one yet!
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being with this gorgeous woman was something else. She was delicious and exciting and excited
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? You know I love it
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? You know I love it
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