What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 18
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Austria
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

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How long ago did this hookup happen? last weekend

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Jens is a 50 year old gay man. He is stocky and has a little bit of a belly. He is almost bald but has a hairy chest.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I have a regular lover, Gunther (see my first story), who is a 41 year old family man. I feel that he has been neglecting me in the recent months. Gunther really wants to make sure that our secret does not get out so he rather not meet with me than running a risk.

I still live with my parents in a village. Last weekend, my parents went away all sunday to some family function I had no interest in attending. I was looking forward to Gunther visiting me that day so we could have sex at my house. However, Gunther turned me down. I was very disappointed.

Friday night, I was on gay chatrooms and got to talk to Jens. After a bit of chat, he asked me to use skype so we could see each other. The chat went really well. I told Jens about my problems with my sexuality in general and with Gunther. Jens confirmed me that I was doing nothing wrong. I should be happy that Gunther had introduced me to gay love. I should freely enjoy sex with him. I found this very reassuring and nice of Jens. Jens told me that he found me very attractive. I can understand that, because I am more than 30 years younger than him.

Jens asked me for cybersex. I agreed, so we both got naked in front of the camera and masturbated together. Jens body is certainly not perfect, but I felt a bit of attraction. His penis and hairy chest still turned me on.

So when we got back to talking and I mentioned again that Gunther refused to visit me on Sunday when I got the house free for us, Jens offered to visit me. He lives about two hours drive from my village. Jens said that he would not mind going for a drive. I was horny and agreed to it. Maybe there was an element of revenge, too. I simply wanted to have sex on that weekend. So I agreed to meet with Jens even though he does not have a dream body.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After my parents had gone on Sunday, Jens came to my house. As agreed, he came through the garden so people could not see him entering my house. I live in the village and people are eager to gossip.

Jens sat down on the sofa and we had a bit of a chat. He told me about how he discovered his gay sexuality when he was a young man and everything was very restrictive. I found that very interesting. Jens freely mentioned that back then he had had sex with old men and now sometimes he has sex with young men. As long as everybody enjoys, there is nothing wrong with it. I liked his openness about sexuality and promiscuity.

I soon sat on his lap and we started kissing. I got undressed so Jens could caress and kiss my entire body. He sucked on my penis and fondled my arse. I went in front of him on the floor as he was sitting on the sofa. I got his dick out and gave him a long good blowjob, also licking his balls until Jens told me to stop. He did not want to cum yet.

We went to my bedroom where Jens also undressed. It was a bit uncomfortable on my single bed, but I did not dare to use my parents bed for this. We kissed and masturbated again. I licked his hairy chest and bit into his nipples.

Jens had brought lube and condoms. He licked my arse for a bit, then he prepared me by rubbing the lube into my anus. Jens fucked me doggy style. I was masturbating until I came while he was fucking me. Jens pulled out before he came. He took off the condom so I could orally pleasure him some more. Even though I had just ejaculated it was fun for me. I gave Jens blowjob until he squirted his sperm into my mouth and on my face. Jens watched me as i licked it off and swallowed his sperm.

I had some frozen pizzas which I offered to Jens. Instead, he invited me for a ride so we could go to a restaurant. I was a bit worried that this would run the risk of us being seen. Jens assured me that he had parked his car in an unsuspicious spot away from my house. I got the idea that he has experience with meeting strangers in remote villages. I agreed and we discreetly made our way to his car. We went to a restaurant, had a good time there, and then back to my house.

Back at my house, we went straight back to the bedroom. We had oral fun in the 69 position. After a bit of that, I put lube into my anus and rode on Jens short, fat penis. We kissed and I licked his chest while we were doing that. We changed to doggy again and we both came, Jens inside my anus.

I thanked Jens for coming over and he left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I have not heard from Jens since, but I am sure i will. Maybe we will meet up again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel more desirable, Revenge / Getting even

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one shall know!

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The emotional closeness I felt with Jens. How easy it was to kiss. I liked how Jens gave me blowjob as well. Jens made me feel as being very attractive. I liked the discussion with Jens of exploring ones sexual identity and coming out.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was a bit concerned about Jens body at first but then his little belly did not matter that much.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I am now very sure that I am homosexual and should live life this way. I have to find a way out of this village and live as openly gay.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have to find ways to get more casual sex! I also want to try it with younger men.

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