What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 59
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, Ph.D., JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Attorney
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I am more attracted to women but enjoy sex with men
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 90
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 11

Swapping Partners in the Dungeon

How long ago did this hookup happen? December 2017

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Kim is a gorgeous blonde with a perfect body, face, and hair. I met her that evening at a house party with a dungeon. There were many beautiful and sexy women at the party, but when she walked into the room, I knew I wanted to meet her. A friend of ours introduced me and she and I hit it off and had a great conversation.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The party moved to the dungeon and everyone got naked and started having sex. My girlfriend was going down on me when Kim and her husband entered the dungeon, stripped and she started giving her hubby a blow job next to me. Then she lay down on the floor with her face next to mine and her hubby went down on her and she and I started kissing. She was a great kisser.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? First, we kissed, then I sucked her nipples and licked her body and went down on her. She came so loud that people stopped having sex to watch us. I then told her I wanted to be inside her, slipped on a condom and fucked her in multiple positions for a very long time. She had many more orgasms while we fucked. While we were fucking, my girlfriend and Kim’s husband swapped oral then he fucked her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt really good as Kim was gorgeous and very sexy. She was the one girl I wanted at that house party and I had her. The four of us went out to dinner once after this party. We had a great time but never fucked again. I am not sure why, but I think Kim and her hubby prefer one night stands.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends and my girlfriend. Everyone loved the story.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had incredible sex in a dungeon with a gorgeous sexy woman I met that evening. What more could you ask for?

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My girlfriend had a little accident in the dungeon. It’s a long story.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It has made me want to have lots more casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? If you have never had dungeon sex, I recommend you give it a try.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think the world would be a far happier place if more people had lots more casual sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!