What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Swapping Significant Others While Swimming

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve know my friend “M” for almost 20 years. We’ve been friends since college, and I known his wife “A” for almost 10 years. My wife and I have been together for almost 20 years as well, married for 13 of those years. We’ve hung out frequently, and we’ve always been very comfortable with them, sharing details of our lives, relationships, and various other facts about our lives. We’ve become very close over the years.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This particular interaction was when we were visiting their home last summer for the weekend. We stayed at their house to just relax over a long weekend and have some fun. The first two nights involved a lot of drinking, games, and flirting. Most between husbands and wives, but occasionally between each other as well. The last night we were there both of our wives started drinking pretty heavily and started acting really flirty with each other as well. M and I looked at each other pretty confused over the whole interaction, but figured it was all in fun so just let it be. Both of them at one point were whispering to each other, they both got up, went outside, and we heard two separate splashes into the pool. We got up to make sure they were both OK considering the state they were in (though to be fair my friend and I have been drinking quite a bit as well.) We found a pile of clothes on the pool deck, and the two of them in the pool topless, and just their underwear on. Both women started laughing and convinced us to jump in the pool with them.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At first nothing much happened, the 4 of us just swam around, occasionally kissing our respective spouses, and just talking. Then my wife said she needed another drink so “A” climbed out of the pool to get it. When she came back, she made it show and started talking to us about how proud she was of her boobs, and she should have been. They were amazing. My wife, who’s equally as well endowed, decided that they should compare and the two of them started rubbing their chests together, and eventually started making out with each other. “M” and I just stared dumbfounded, and eventually the girls broke apart and my wife swam to me, and “A” swam to my friend. Each couple started making out pretty heavily, and my wife started stroking my dick through my shorts, while I reached down and rubbed her slit through her underwear. She broke off our kiss and started laughing, then looked over at our friends who seemed to be getting pretty into it as well. When they looked over at us, the four of us started laughing and kept swimming. Eventually we started talking again, and at some point my wife was hugging “M” while they were swimming and “A” kept wrapping my arms around her while we floated. “A” kept guiding my hands down from her stomach to her pelvic area, but I didn’t dare let me hands wander any further down. I looked to my friend, and he looked at me equally confused, because it seemed my wife’s hands were doing similar to him. At that point “A” swam away from me, and started making out with my wife again. I was getting hard, despite the alcohol and cold water, when “A” came back over to me and wrapped her arms around me from behind, pressing her amazing boobs into my back. She kept whispering into my ear about not being worried and to relax, and then she slid her hand down my chest, into the waist of my shorts, and started stroking my dick. I panicked not wanting to cheat on my wife, but noticed she was kissing “M” and he was rubbing her boobs. I heard “A” laugh in my ear and say she always wanted to do that to me, so not to be outdone, I reached behind me, found her crotch with my hand, and started rubbing up and down her slit, making sure to put pressure on her clit. She moaned in my ear, and bit my back.

After that the four of us broke apart, climbed up to the deck, dried off went inside and continued what we started in the pool. I saw “M” eating out my wife, while “A” gave me an amazing blowjob. I had sex with my wife on their couch, while “A” and her were making out and I pulled out and finished on my wife’s chest, while “M” finished inside his wife.

We all laughed, and kind of nervously went to bed. The next morning we all were apprehensive about bringing it up, but my wife broke the ice by saying “Thank you” to them and saying she would never have been able to do that without being so comfortable with them. We all agreed that it was a great time, but weren’t sure if it would happen again.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Looking back on it I still get waves of nervousness and wonder if we should have gone through with it, but also feel like it was amazing. It never felt wrong, but I was always afraid one of the group would have a hard time dealing with what was done. So far we’re all still close and still hang out as often as possible, but never come close to what happened that night.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication, Everyone else was/is doing it, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

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