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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chicago
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 45
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Sweaty BJ On The Frat-House Floor

How long ago did this hookup happen? 39 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Kay was a funny, friendly girl I knew from hanging around at the dorm. We were both 19, staying on campus for the summer, and renting rooms at the frat house. It was a hot summer, no AC. Kay was lush and a little overweight. She had long brown hair and the sweetest, happiest, lewdest smile ever. She had a huge, beautiful rack, round and full and not shy in those skimpy summer crop-tops. She usually flirted with Adam at the frat, but had pictures of her BF Larry in her room.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were always flirting, but I thought she was too busy. I asked her flat out one day, “Does Adam know about Larry?” She was shocked that I was on to her, and blushed furiously. We got to talking about how much she liked sex, and pretty soon, I was getting a hard-on. In my smoothest line ever, I said, “I think we should continue this conversation in the nude.” She nodded, and said, “OK!” I took  off my clothes, and laid back on her mattress on the floor. It was Chicago summer, about 90 degrees at 1pm in the afternoon. She took off her shirt, and her beautiful full breasts swung as she sat down beside me, naked. She reached for my swollen dick and gave it a few friendly tugs. “I have a boyfriend…or two. So, I can’t fuck you. But I could, you know…” and she looks at my cock.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? “Sure!” I said, and just laid back. As she bent over my body, I reached down, and felt her cool, fat breast fill my hand. She moaned a little, then licked the head of my now-hard cock. It was delicious. She had such fat, wet lips. She dowsed over me, bending down again and again, as her hand slid up and down the shaft. As she leaned into me, over and over, I felt her breast bobbing into my hand. I flicked my thumb over her huge nipple, and felt it grow hard in my palm. My cock slid into her mouth, sliding across the top of her throat, and her lips and fingers milked me so sweetly. The sweat ran down her body, into my hand. She rubber her hand on my belly and chest, making it wet with sweat. Then she pressed her face onto my cock, her lips brushing my pubic hair as she bent down, engulfing me. My fingers strayed to her pubic hair, and I flicked at her wet pussy lips. She took her mouth off of my cock, and said, “Don’t worry about me. Just let me make you feel good.” Then she dove back down on my cock, her sweat-slick hand jerking the shaft on each upstroke. I touched her hair, “I think I”m going to come, baby.” She made happy noises, and sped up her jerking. In a second or two, my back was arching up off of the dirty mattress, and my hips were bucking up towards her face. She moaned and swallowed like a pro, gulping all my come down, stroking me expertly to enhance my pleasure as she sucked it all out of me. I laid back gasping, delirious. She smiled at me, giggled, and wiped her mouth with her arm.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were very friendly for years afterwards, always happy to see each other, but we never hooked up again. That was the definition of a Casual hook-up! I think fondly of her so often, and that sweaty blowjob on the floor.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just bragged to a few friends, probably. They were jealous.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That I got served so splendidly, that she swallowed, that it happened so easily.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing bad about it all, except no repeats!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Wish I’d tried that line more often.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I have a special place in my heart for the girls with whom my only sexual contact was them blowing me.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love it, I miss it, hope to have it again.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s the best.

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