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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Swinger
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Swinger Party Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Bout 5′ MILF tummy, D natural boobs, several tattoos, shaved, dyed purplish reddish hair

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I attended a weekend long swing party with a closed group from FB with my girlfriend. We had met several of the group members at bar events and had chances to chat with them in a casual environment. The day I meet A was at a pool party on Saturday during the swinger party. She was in the pool topless from the time we got there. I was swimming but with my shorts on. The upper deck above the pool started a foam party, which i had never experienced before. Within minutes most people were naked in the foam. The music was rocking and everyone was dancing. For several minutes I was dancing with A naked in the foam. The feel of our naked bodies together in that silky soapy environment was very sensual and erotic. Throughout the course of the foam I received more hand gropes form about a several women but I didn’t cum at any point. The foam party ran it’s course and people returned to pool. The pool party wound down. We went to dinner as a group. I chatted with A a little but nothing specific. We returned to the club, danced with the group for several hours. When the Red Room (group play, naked only room) opened we all retired to the group play

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So, one of the ladies in our group wanted to be gangbanged, I was happy to help her fulfill this request but it put me in a situation where I was spent. After a water break I enjoyed some lite play with the other ladies of our group. A was blowing me while her husband was fucking her. She actually passed me off to one the other ladies of our group while she finished with her husband and then returned to blowing me. I wanted to return her efforts and I was determined to make her cum with my tongue. I was eating her pussy trying to make her cum but she stopped and said she can’t that way.

We were both worn out a bit so I sat back against the wall with A in my arms relaxing but fooling around at the same time. I started biting her neck while we were kinda relaxing back. She says harder. So I bite harder. After a few times she says you can smack me anywhere. So I started smacking her tits and sides of her ass and grabbing her nipples. After like 5 minutes, she rolls over and starts blowing me again. I had already cum once with the other chick. Anyway, I’m smacking her back and ass. She has a pretty great ass and a couple tattoos so I had an amazing view. The harder I smacked (for the record, nothing malicious, I wasn’t trying to hurt her) she was getting more turned on and I was getting harder and harder again. I couldn’t take it anymore. I grabbed her hair, spun her around and slide into her pussy, and fucked her from behind. I orgasmed after a few minutes. It was intense as it was my second one of the evening and I was loud and collapsed on her panting. I was done for the night. I grabbed more water and reconnected with my girlfriend at the lounge. When I saw A again a few minutes later she laid a big kiss on me, said I had the perfect slapping force and she loved that she made me cum so hard and loud

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hung out as a group, we had all played with each other to some extent. A couple of the ladies hooked up with each other. A lot was going on, this is just my part of the event. Everyone was spent though so we broke off the night and went home

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends, Everyone else was/is doing it, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Her, big kisses and hugs, my girlfriend was a little jealous

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The view of her amazing ass and back right before I grabbed her hair

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing with A, that was some amazing sex but my girlfriend and I ended up in an argument out front, she was drunk and jealous

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope, look forward to more

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? The negative is all related to my Gf reaction. I found out today that she was upset about one of the other guys not wanting sex with her but preferring his girlfriend. That combined with the alcohol and actually seeing me with A lead to the jealousy

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing, I’m enjoying the swing lifestyle

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I read the articles regularly

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