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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 39
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 33
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The hook up was with my wife and another guy we met through a swinging website.
We had met the guy once before and had exchanged messages through a phone messaging service.
We knew the guy was ‘okay’ and genuine and my wife liked him which always helps.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hook up began through a swinging website, we exchanged messages and then met for an MFM but this account is about our second MFM and not the first meet we had.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The hook up was to be a very kinky scenario where my wife would tie me up and then have sex with the other guy with me ‘forced’ to watch. It started with me and her in a hotel room, we played with each other and had some mild oral sex before she tied me to a chair. Once I was secured and unable to move she proceeded to get ready for her ‘fuck buddy’.
When he arrived they kissed passionately in front of me and then he lay her on the bed and went down on her pussy with his tongue. He gasped when he slipped a finger inside and discovered just how wet she was. Next, my wife got out his cock and sucked his 8-inch cock on her knees in front of me. They then moved to the bed where they 69’ed each other with my wife on top sucking his cock.
They then moved back to me, my wife put her hands on my shoulders stood facing me and he entered her pussy from behind.
I saw her face as he slid his full length inside her tight wet pussy. They screwed like that for a little while before moving back to the bed and screwing in various positions. They seemed to forget I was there as they enjoyed each other’s bodies.
Eventually, he could take no more and my wife knelt in front of him and he sprayed her perfect size 8 body in his cum. He then left and my wife untied me… we moved to the bed and I slipped inside her very well used pussy. It felt amazingly loose and used! We fucked and talked about how much of a slut she was until I could take no more and I covered her in my cum.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We chatted about what we had done for weeks after and had amazing sex with each other. We never met the guy again because as regular swingers we only meet single guys a maximum of twice. This keeps it exciting and also stops guys from forming an unwanted attachment.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Each other and we were very excited

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The power exchange between myself and my wife. We are both naturally dominant so we like to switch for each other.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? When it ended lol

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It hasn’t, we are regular swingers and have sex with multiple partners including mfm, mmff, mmmfff etc

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Swinging is a small part of our life, we have been together 12 years. We work, live, sleep together and have sex with others together. We are together 24/7, we never argue and are very much in love. Neither of us would ever cheat. How many ‘normal’ couples could be together 24/7 365 days a year and say that? Not many

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good idea

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!