Race/ethnicity: Caucasian english
Current location: Essex uk
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
Relationship status: Married, 47 years
Religious affiliation: Church of england
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One
Swinging Gone Wrong
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends with benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? my wife is 66 blonde hair 5.2 inches,nice tits a bit overweight,very social character and loved by everyone.
my mate terry,64,overweight but has always fancied my wife,
pam his wife 5.6 slim with big tits.
terry and I have been friends since childhood and his parents and mine were friends before that.they were very close friends,and we spent lots of weekends at their caravan but never had sex there
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? it was on one of our weekends with them last summer,we had all chatted about going to a nudist beach and had all said we would strip off in front of each other.later terry and I were fishing and he asked me how far would we go with them if we got horny.i was a bit surprised but said I,d love it but lynn most definitely wont.he asked me to ask her.which I did later.she was upset with me for not saying no so I said ok we wont go any further and I,ll ring terry and tell him no.she then said not yet let me think about it.four days later we were in bed when she just blurted out ok yes,i said yes to what and she said to swapping.boy was I surprised and very pleased.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? on the night lynn and I asked pam if she was ok with it ,she said yes lets try it tonight and see.i could,nt believe it when lynn grabbed terry and said lets go into the bedroom now.pam and I then did the same in another room.we kissed and petted then I went down on pam and she moaned and thrashed her hips till she orgasmed.but by now I was not into it any longer thinking of what was going on in the other room.pam tried sucking me until I got hard then I entered her but went soft again we eventually gave up and went into the lounge.terry and lynn were still at it.i eventuall had to call out that I couldn’t do it any more they came out and it was over
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didn’t, terry didn’t, lynn did with terry sucking her and fingering her,but we were all shocked at my change of mind.i was ok with the sex but the different rooms flipped me.lynn said terry did enter her but went soft immediately which disappointed her as she wanted him to cum in her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? no precautions at all it was the first time for all of us
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? just pure sexual fun and pleasure,ive always fantasized about my wife being pleasured by another man.but I wanted to watch which didn’t happen
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? none
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was upset about lynns eagerness to go into another room with terry,pam was not very good as she has no other experience either.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? only terry and pam
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes it most definatley was for me ,lynn was reluctant at first but was more enthusiastic than me in the end
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? yes because it caused bad feeling between lynn and myself.and now she feels different about terry
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? the excitement before and the planning with shopping for sexy underwear and talking about it all the time ,we had the best sex weve ever had in our lives.i now wish I hadn’t acted as I did and would love to try again .but lynn said she will never do anything like it again.so back to the humdrum sex of old,but I still get horny thinking about them fucking.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? we never discussed what we all wanted before and paid the price for not doing so.
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