by The kid
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 49
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? dozens
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Swings and Spurts
How long ago did this hookup happen? I was 13+, so 36 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Exhibitionism
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Our neighbor W was a (perhaps partly) Native American woman, with dark hair, medium size and in her 20s. I think she was single but I don’t really know about her relationships or family, except that she was renting the small next-door house.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?
So it wasn’t really a hookup. I’m just adding this to diversify the listings at the margins. It was a non-consensual imposition of my exhibitionist tendencies on her. To be fair to myself, I was only 13; indeed, I had never even had an orgasm yet, and this was my first. But I was getting urges to play with my body and wanted to expose it to the air more often. We had a tire swing in our backyard, and with most people gone during the day both around the block and in our house some days, I often felt safe running around parts of the yard naked. I would sometimes sit on the tire swing naked with my penis and balls tucked behind me, sticking out under my exposed butt, which gave me an erection and felt good. In retrospect, of course, this was crazy to do but it was a small town and not out in the country, so I was bound to get caught.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
I probably did this at night first, but felt increasingly daring and did it a few times during the day. I knew it was risky but felt urges to do this more often when I thought I could. So when no one seemed to be around, I got naked on the tire swing again and started rocking back and forth on it with my erection poking out the back. This felt good and I kept increasing the bouncing for several minutes. Then I heard a noise and looked to see that W had stepped out of her back door and was standing in front of it, just staring at me. I freaked out and jumped off the tire swing, and ran back inside. From the nearest room, I then peaked out the window between the drapes and saw that up to a minute or more later she was still standing there, staring at the tire swing, as if frozen in place. I was still totally panicked, embarrassed, and scared of the repercussions. But I still felt very sexually excited, and soon felt an urge to pee so I ran to the nearest bathroom and sat on the toilet. It was a very strange urge, and as soon as I sat there with the sexual feelings still strong, I felt a weird pulsing and saw white fluid coming out of my penis. This was my first ejaculation. It actually didn’t feel that good by itself, no more than the preceding build-up of sexual tension, perhaps because it was so bewildering and new to me. There was also a lot of it, probably because it had built up for days or weeks and finally had a release. It was definitely instigated by my time on the swing, and the exciting risk and then the actuality of being seen.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now?
I don’t know if W ever told anyone; certainly not that I heard. A few months later she asked me, through my mother, to mow her lawn (I was frequently seen doing that at our house). She never said or hinted about what she saw earlier, but did watch me part of the time while I mowed the grass (which she had allowed getting extremely long, so it often choked the mower and I had to stop and clean it). At least while I started, she was sitting on the back side of the lawn tanning on a lawn chair in a bikini. So maybe she enjoyed watching me (especially after I got hot and took my shirt off!) but she never showed specific interest, and I did nothing to suggest anything; if she was curious or fantasizing about seeing my cock on the swing and possibly seducing me but I’m sure my age dissuaded her from acting on it. I finished the job so she paid me and I rarely saw her again before she eventually moved away.
Over the next few years, I occasionally did this again, but only in the dead of night, or at parks or schoolyards away from our house, and taking greater precautions against being seen. There, I would use the black rubber swings and again put my hard penis behind me, often with my balls under my butt which I then had to sit on gingerly so as not to crush them, but adding a pleasant motion as I swung back and forth. Nor was I ever naked again doing this; I only did it wearing terry-cloth shorts, slipping my genitals out the side. Several times this led to ejaculations (indeed, this was for a while my easiest and most reliable way of getting there and it took me years to do it effectively by hand), and when they started I would just stop pushing myself on the swing and just hold myself still on the seat, which kept swinging back and forth, my semen spurting out behind me and sometimes leaving a stain on the back of my shorts. I don’t know that I was ever seen again, although one time when I did this on a swing set on a corner of an elementary school, with a fence and some trees between it and the alley, I was starting to get excited when suddenly a car pulled into the alley, and as I turned my head (I was facing the school, my cock pointing out to the alley), I could clearly see the woman driving it waving to me as she pulled into the garage directly behind me. This was again very exciting and I started spewing cum with great pleasure. I hope she didn’t see that, but again the risk of being seen added to the excitement.
Fortunately, exhibitionism didn’t stay part of my sexual needs, at least for decades, I have not felt any need to take such risks, although someone watching me masturbate is often a turn-on. But I’m usually more comfortable in more controlled environments.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, To feel better about me
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Not at all
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Because it was very risky, and non-consensual, even though there was no contact.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was my first orgasm, and the repercussions were not as bad as I feared.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being scared of what W might do in response.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Be careful! But have fun.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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