What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Los Angeles
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Unsure / Questioning
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Hetero bi-curious
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Taken At 58
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Non-hookup or fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was white, 49. He stood 6’3″ and weighed 230lbs ( he told me), I’m less than 6′, less than 200lbs. His body was covered in red hair. I knew him briefly, he and I had a very friendly repertoire toward each other.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hook up began in a communal shower. He and I were alone by chance. It was he who instigated our sexual encounter.
When this hookup happened it was totally unexpected and surprising. For some weird reason, I was attracted as well as secretly intimidated by this guy. Although I had never been with a guy, I have always fantasized about it. Cutting to the chase, in the shower, as most guys do, I took a peek at my soon to be partner, as he did me, I’m sure.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? What happened was with my back turned to him, under a shower of water, he came up behind me and literally placed his hand on my right ass cheek and whispered, “If I’m out of place, forgive me, but are one sexy fella.” To this day, I swear I don’t know how or why. All I know is something within me made me turn to face him. As scared and nervous as I was, I looked up at him, I told him I had never been with a guy. It was like he brushed it off and said, yeah I know, then he placed his hand behind my head. He brought his face to mine, then firmly put his lips to mine. I had never kissed a man before and most guys would have freaked out, I didn’t. I was reluctant for about 2 seconds, but I felt also felt submissive to him. He really through off this Dominant Alpha type of aura without being cocky and arrogant.
When we were kissing, which was quite passionately. He had his arms around me, feeling his hairy body on mine, along with feeling his cock hardening, I was feeling happy I am capable of turning another guy on. After he broke away, he backed up and little, I looked at him and I just dropped to my knees. The shower was running and for the first time ever, I sucked a cock. I had seen porn, read stories and had lots of fantasies about doing this and here I was. His cock was pinkish white, cut and about 6-7in, he also had a thick patch of red pubic hair. When I first took hold of his cock, my head was literally spinning, I could not believe what I was about to do. I took hold of the cock, I stroke it, sniffed it and examined it before he said, “examine over, and open up”, and he took his cock and pushed it into my mouth.
It took me a few minutes of getting used to and learning how to suck this guy’s cock. He had one of his hands on the back of my bald head, as he verbally directs me sucking his cock. After about 5 min I had the hang of it, I was also very turned on sucking his cock. I was able to take all of him, I sucked his balls and enjoy him. However, I was prepared for him cumming in my mouth. When he was close to cumming, he placed both of his hands on my head and began face fucking me. I tried to push back but dude was too strong. He pushed his cock all the way in my mouth, my nose was smashed against his pubic hair. I felt his cock pulse and then there were several warm ropes of his sperm hitting the back of my throat. I gagged a little before swallowing most of his sperm.
It ended with me still kneeling at his feet, some of his sperm on my lips. I couldn’t look at him, he patted me on my head and said “Good Job”, then he grabbed his stuff and left me kneeling, alone. I didn’t cum, I felt very used and sexually degraded and humiliated. I also realized I was very turned on during the event.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Over next coupes day, whenever I saw him I couldn’t look at him, not from shame but from sexual intimidation. In spite of what happened and the ill feelings I had, I kind of wanted more. Four days later he approached me, being discreet. All he said was, “if you enjoyed our shower together, meet me at midnight, same place. If not, what happened will never happen again.” I met him at midnight. That’s a different Hook Up Story. He and I got together sexually a few times over a 2 week period.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Submission / Relinquishing power, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have spoken to No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best part of this hook up is being able to experience one of my wildest fantasies, not just sucking a cock and swallowing. I was really turned on by feeling his dominance over me along with being able to try out my submissive side. It’s not just sucking a cock, but there was also a strong sexual attraction between us. The time we were at the same facility, he and I had become very private and discreet male lovers.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? When the time came for us to go our separate ways. He had a wife and two kids waiting for him. As for myself, I went home to knowing I enjoyed a new experience and possibly a new different life.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex is not safe. I also know that I will always like females but now I am open and willing to men as well.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I love sex, I have only had sexual experiences with women until this hook up. I knew that if I had sex with a guy and I’m turned on, I would go all out, which I did. I also know I’m capable of becoming a male slut, LOL.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Brand New. Undecided, but leaning in a very positive direction.
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