What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Los Angeles
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Gym Trainer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? As complicated as it gets, I date men but I sleep with women.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 48 hours ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? So we met on a dating website. I had slept with a couple of women in my life, although none of them were ever white. Now I don’t have issues with colors, just didn’t get a chance until now.
She was a couple of years younger than me, slim, tall, the type I dreamt of. We had a chat online before deciding to meet at a hotel bar 2 days back. She was bi, a sort of first time for her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had drinks till we were both almost tipsy before we paid the bill and headed upstairs. We sat on the bed. She was shy, I slowly went in, placing a kiss on her lips. Went in for a second time, with a longer kiss until her lips gave way for my tongue. She tasted sweet, definitely what I craved for that night.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Got into a 69 position, licking our pussies all night until both sides came, we used fingers, she straddled my face, all lust and desire.
I took out a 6 inch dildo from my bag, strapped it on and shoved it into her pussy and gave her a good orgasm.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled and slept off. Went off our separate ways the next morning.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Tasting vanilla for the very first time. Sweet, gorgeous and I’d like another chance.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Hoping the night would last longer.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No it hasn’t
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
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