by Brad

Gender: Male
Age: 48
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Musician
Relationship status: Divorced
Religious affiliation: None to speak of
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 years !!

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Then: The luckiest day of my life.  Now: Pawn in a sex game

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My neighbor from across the street was very attractive. She was in her early-thirties, I think, almost twice my age. I lived in a neighborhood with big properties so I had never seen her before – never knew she existed. She showed up at my front door and seemed nice.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She explained to me, standing on my door-step, that she needed help moving her couch. I won’t explain, but looking back it was a very questionable story. So, I followed her across the street to go move a couch. Looking back, now I know that this whole thing was planned, and that I was a pawn in a sexual fantasy. I did nothing to cause this, other than, I guess, be handsome, and living across the street from her.
When we arrived at her house, she told me she made up the couch story, but there was another reason she needed me there. She asked me to wait a moment. The phone rang and she spoke for a minute and gave it to me. The man on the phone explained that he was a psychiatrist, and that the woman in front me was very sick and seriously needed my help, immediately. I agreed to help this poor woman.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He instructed us to pass the phone back and forth and he gave us each instructions. My first instruction was that – he was going to instruct her to say “My shoulders hurt” and at that time – I was to put my hands on them and rub them lightly. There was kissing, fondling, and general making-out, but all choreographed by the Psychologist. We were eventually naked in bed together.
When she asked me to fuck her, with the phone against her ear in between conversation bits with the psychologist, I put a stop to it. I still had my virginity and this just did not feel like the right situation to lose it. She acknowledged me silently and then proceeded to fake a good fucking and orgasm. It was quite the show.
The guy on the phone told me to never speak of this. I proposed to her that something was fishy (duh!!!) and then headed back across the street.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No orgasms, just mind-blown. I could barely stay hard, it was such a bizarre situation.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Nope, nothing.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was just doing a neighborly favor.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None on my side.  None on her’s either I think.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I saw her husband once – we passed each other on bikes and he checked me out.  I saw her once more and asked her what came of the situation and she explained that a co-worker of her husband had been doing this with other women and the police were taking care of it.
Thirty years later, I finally understand what really happened. The man was her husband. I was a pawn in a BDSM scene. He had her go fetch me so he could make her have sex with me while he listened on the phone.
For 30 years I felt like the luckiest 18 year old in the world to get to randomly and suddenly play with my neighbor-lady’s body, but now I feel used and violated. I tried to get in touch with her but she’s been ignoring me so far. I don’t think I’d feel used and violated if they’d talk to me and let me in on the story, but they probably figure it’s risky to admit anything to me since I might sue or at least make it publicly known.

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