What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Mexico
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Constume/Fashion Designer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? i’m curious and always willing to experiment.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? about 9-10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? this is the first one.
Teen Crush Reunion
How long ago did this hookup happen? about a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was the best friend of my sister’s boyfriend and they had a band together. When I met him I was twelve years old and I always had a crush on him but never thought that I had a chance with him since he was 7 years older than me. I mean, my boobs were just showing up, I had never french-kissed a boy, never had a sexual encounter or anything, and he was 19 so…thing is, we only “dated” about six months or so, just kissing really hard and he would sometimes touch my ass or my nipples over the clothes. It was so exciting.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We stopped seeing each other for about 6-7 years. He reminded myself of being this childish girl so unexperienced at love. We reunited about a year ago. I had never stopped thinking about him and I wanted his attention so much – I wanted him to know that I was no longer a girl and that I wasn’t a virgin anymore, that I was living on my own, etc. Thing is he told me he would take me out for dinner because of my birthday, so we kept on talking and shit, and then one day I was with some of my best friends in a bar and I was drunk, so I texted him and told him to come by. It was almost 3 AM. He was about 40 minutes away from us, so we agreed that he would pick me up at my friend’s house where I was staying for the week, and we would buy some booze and then go to his apartment (for the record we haven’t seen each other for YEARS, but he came back to where we first met). Of course I agreed and he told me he would drive me to my friend’s house in the morning.
He arrived, in a cab with his roomie whom I had met before since they were best friends. So we hugged and he helped with my stuff – he was nice and we talked in the cab about how crazy it was seeing each other after so many years, of course we flirted a bit and shit.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I think we both knew what was about to happen. We drank so much that day and we also smoked a bit of weed. I was so sleepy since it was about 6 in the morning, so I told him I was going to bed. I grabbed my stuff and walked from the table where we were drinking with his roomie and asked him where his room was. He pointed to a door on the left, and I walked to the room and started looking for my PJs, and then he showed up and asked if I had any problem whether he slept there too. I told him it was his room and he should stay there, and I was such a baby slut – he was going through his closet reaching for his clothes and I started undressing and talking to him so he could look at me.
We were in bed and actually tried to sleep for probably two seconds, until he hugged me and I reached for his lips. He took a bit to kiss me back but then we started making out really hard – he started grabbing my ass, and I was kissing his neck and licking his abs. He would gently grab my tits and then my nipples, I was so wet. I craved him, and the only thing I could think of was “please devour me.” So he of course grabbed my vagina and started fondling me really fast; I was desperate and took off his pants, grabbed his dick, and gave him a hand job. We were facing each other in bed while touching each other. Out of nowhere I completely took away my pants and undies and turned back, grabbed his hard as rock dick, and clumsily put it inside me. He was so big and I was so small that we had a bit of a struggle with the penetration, but he started fucking me really hard until I couldn’t help but moan as hard as my voice could. He kept on telling me that I was so damn fine and touching my vagina and my tits, moving me around the room and stuff. Then he finished on my belly and we cleaned each other and slept.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Of course we were really uncomfortable, since we were completely naked. We were hangover, and hadn’t seen each other in years. I was happy and so was he, so we kept on doing this for about 2 months or so. I don’t feel attracted to him anymore. We don’t see each other anymore; I think it was my need for him to see me as a grown woman, but he was kind of dumb and we really had a hard time having sex since he was really tall and I’m really small, so we couldn’t bond in any aspect.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends who knew about him and my sister.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Because we have friends in common and I’m completely sure he told them. Also I found out he had a girlfriend.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting to see him again and getting him to know me in a sexual way.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He wasn’t that good at sex.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? sure
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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