What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Philippines
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Part time job
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Few weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Typical boy-next-door, dark brown curly hair, 2 inches taller than me, chocolate eyes and luscious lips. We’re best friends who don’t hook up, we just make out. I had a little crush for him back when we were in high school.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We’re at my apartment watching movies and drinking beer, a usual Friday night marathon. We were watching this movie with its own share of sex. Because of our history of makeouts he teased me about “doing everything but” because I am still a girl. I told him, “Yeah, and how’s this?” I began kissing him sweetly and teasing him feeling the heat of both our bodies then I stopped abruptly just to laugh it off.
“Cock blocker,” he mumbled.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were sitting side by side when I stood up and sexily slid in his lap touching his chest down his abdomen. He cupped my butt and fitted my position in him as I began kissing him torridly, with both of our tongues involved. He then took off my shirt and my bra playing with my breasts, pinching my nipples tastefully. I took off his shirt too and wrapped my legs around him. We then layed on the couch, me on top of him.I slid off my shorts revealing my lace panties and his beautiful eyes immediately showed lust. He slid his revealing a tent forming on his boxers. I sat on his chest, jutting my ass up his face and pulled the last bit of clothes off of him. I played my way on his shaft using my saliva as a lubricant. He moaned as soon as I touched him and I decided to play dirty. I licked his head circling it using my mouth before going up and down him. He grabbed my hips as I did so. I massaged his balls and continued doing my business until he gave me his sweet milk. I faced him, licking my lips as I eyed him. He then rolled on top of me and pulled my panties down. I gave out a moan when he hit my clitoris, massaging it with expertise. I was officially losing my mind as his left played with my clit and the right thrust in and out of me. I whispered his name as I reach my climax. I laughed at his proud expression and pulled him in for a kiss.
He whispered, “I’m not done yet,” before proceeding to trail kisses down my neck, massage my breasts, and eat my nipples. His tongue made me more wet as I gave in to my moans. Done with my breasts, he kissed me down to my hole, pinching my clit as his tongue darted in and out. I thrusted my hips from the pleasure and I actually pleaded him now. He positioned his cock, sliding it up and down before taking me by surprise. He slid his whole cock in me, feeling me first before ramming me with all its worth. I found his rhythm and synchronized with his thrusts until I climaxed. He then released his load inside me. We were both out of breath as he lay beside me. I laughed as his lips touched my neck and he suggested we do it often. I refused politely, saying that we were not a thing. He then said, “I found my way with you just now right? Surely I’ll find it some other day.” We ended up cuddling, with him staying the night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day, we both took our shower and dealt with it cooly. He teased me about it which was the end of that. I don’t feel anything out of ordinary except maybe respect, as I knew another part of him.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my girl best friend. She was so excited, talking about how she ships us or whatever.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We remained as what we are. It felt reassuring knowing you have someone you can get it off without strings attached.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing at all.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? None
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Well, it happens. It improves your partners involved.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s a fun way of sharing your hookup incognito and learning more as you fill up the narrative.
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