What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 64
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “C” is part Asian and part Hispanic. She is about 5’3 with a nice body — curvely-fit is how I would describe her. We’ve known each other virtually all our lives, growing up in the same city and going to the same elementary, intermediate, and high schools. We were friends throughout, though we were never especially close because we hung-out with different social cliques. After graduating from high school, we went away to different colleges and pretty much lost contact with each other.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our high school class was planning a “Turning 60” class reunion and since “C” was our class secretary in high school, she contacted all of us via email to let us know about the “Turning 60” reunion and asked us to indicate whether we might be able to make it. This was the first contact I had had with “C” since our 20th class reunion, which was 20 years earlier. I responded to “C” and told her that I was planning to attend the event, and to let me know if I could do anything to help. “C” responded back by asking me “wassup” and how I was doing? This started an email exchange between us that basically caught us up on each other’s lives. Turns out that “C” had been in long-term affair with a guy from her work place, but she felt that it was going nowhere because he had no interest in leaving his family, and she, too, had no pressing desire to leave her family. I told her that I had had a few affairs myself, but nothing as long-term as her’s. She suggested that we should have a “cheater’s dance” at the reunion and I told her it was a date. We both laughed it off as a joke.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We met at the “Turning 60” reunion, which, by the way, was held in Las Vegas. (Seriously!) We had a good time at the reception — and yes, we did have our “cheater’s dance” — actually several of them since we both enjoyed dancing more than the rest of the classmates we hung out with at the reception. After the reception was over, a bunch of us decided to go casino-hopping, so off we went as a group. “C” and I stuck together with a small group and we played slot machines, some roulette, black jack, and even some craps together as a group. The group slowly disbanded as people went their separate ways and others called it a night. Eventually, it was just “C” and I, and we decided to go for a 2:00 a.m. breakfast, where we talked among other things, about our respective affairs. I felt close to “C” because of the sharing of those “secrets,” and I think she did too. It was late and we were both tired, bit neither of us wanted to call it a night so I suggested that we go to her room, or mine, to hang out. We ended up at her room because it was closer. “C” suggested that we watch some porn on the TV since she always wanted to see it but never was able to. I was fine with that so we found something that looked interesting and started watching it. I’m not sure who started it, but we moved closer together and started kissing. Our kissing became more heated and soon I was feeling her boobs and she was slowly rubbing my cock through my pants. I took that as a sign that I could do more so I pushed her sundress down to expose one of her boobs and started sucking on its nipple. She started moaning softly and slide my hand under her dress to see if she was wet. When I slid my finger into her panty and felt the entrance to her vagina, it was clear that she was moist. I slid my middle finger in her to get it wet, and then started to massage her clit as I suckled her breasts. By now “C” was moaning louder and saying things like, “Oh, that feels good.” I then asked her if I could go down on her and she responded by gently pushing the top of my head down toward her vagina. I pushed her back against the sofa, went on my knees, spread her legs, removed her panties, and started to lick her. She smelled musky and tasted a little salty-sweet, and I licked her with gusto, eventually focusing on her clit. It took a little while, but I got her to have an orgasm. After she calmed down, she said it was my turn and she proceeded to give me a blow job. Unfortunately, I was so tired that I couldn’t get it up despite her best effort. After awhile, I told her that we should get some rest and maybe try again later if she wanted to.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fell asleep cuddling and got up around 8:00 a.m. We started kissing again, and this time she was able to get me hard just through kissing and her rubbing my cock. I rolled onto her and slide into her and fucked her for awhile missionary style, then she rolled over on me and rode me for awhile, and we finished doggie style when I came in her. I’m not sure that she had an orgasm, but she said she enjoyed it. We took a shower together, had some kissing and water play, and then I left for my room because we both had to get ready for the class picnic at noon. There was more action later that night but that’s for another story.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being with “C” as mature, 60s folks. 🙂

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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