What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? last weekend
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had known El for a long time, we grew up together and always saw each other around. She is about 5’10” and hot, perfectly shaped breasts and a slim but firm booty. We have been friends in class, working together and sometimes discussing personal stuff late at night. We both agreed that talking about sex is fine, it shouldn’t be so taboo. I had always toyed around with the idea that we might get togehter in a relationship sometime but never too seriously.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was camping in the woods for an event that hosted a dance in the evenings, and she loves dancing. I know that, and given her sexiness, I couldn’t wait to try something afterward. We danced for a bit, I was obviously checking her body out, until she slapped me and commented that I should “do something before it gets too late.” I took the hint and led her out of the crowds and we flirted for awhile in the shadows, listening to the music. I knew she had had sex before but I was a total virgin. I had just turned 18 and she was 21.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After excusing ourselves we snuck back to my tent and cuddled. I started caressing her leg as we sat side by side and she asked me if I wanted to lose it. I said, “You tell me,” and she then reached for my dick through my pants and said “Well your dick is ready,” with this cute sideways smile at me. I leaned in and hugged her with a deep kiss and started stripping her. Our t-shirts came off, then we got laid and took off our pants, underwear and lastly her bra. I couldn’t believe how PERFECT her breasts were.
She started a handjob then we transitioned to titty fucking until I almost came, but I begged her to let me cum in her. We did missionary, I was kissing her upper body and our hands all over each other. Before I came she flipped over and rode me until I was wild and finally came in deep long hard shuddering cums, multiple. She was unbelievable.
We laid there to catch our breath, her naked body on mine. We talked for a while then she gave me a slow blowjob, until I came. She repeated this until my dick throbbed and I felt like I was out of cum. She let me kiss, caress and cuddle her boobs, then we took selfies of us naked in different poses. Before we fell asleep she insisted that we titty fuck until I came on her face, which we did. Her smile made me beg for more sex so we fucked again and again in different poses until we were exhausted. I fell asleep with my head on her chest, nuzzling her breasts and relaxing in the luxuriating softness. That was a dream come true.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We woke up the next morning naked and cold but quickly warmed up with some slow making out, and then hard hot fast sex. We agreed to be fuck-buddies and do risky things whenever possible, from explicit fondling in public to fucking in her parent’s house, anything. She was attracted to me too and told me she loved my attentiveness. I know she has had boyfriends and isn’t interested in one right now, but I hope her attraction to me will increase. Our sex chemistry is off the charts. She said she’ll teach me how to give her oral next time.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Everyone else was/is doing it, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t mentioned it to anyone, but it’s only been a few days. My friends don’t think casual sex is okay but that may change.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally acting on my daydreams, I could tell her ALL the sexy dirty thoughts I thought of her and she ate it all up. She totally understood how attracted I was to her breasts.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That we didn’t have a longer time to fuck!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex gives room for relaxing without the relationship strain. I can explore my sexuality, and discover who I am. Same goes for El since we talked about this.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I wish I would’ve propositioned sex sooner. If someone really likes you for who you are, they can forgive your awkward, straight out a blunt confession that you love their boob size and dream of fucking them. Or else, they aren’t worth your time and can’t kill you. We may even make it a threesome with her fucking attractive sister. I plan to go to their lake party and see about playing strip poker (with girls in bikini’s, hell yes!)
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It should be normal on more fronts, but friends are a good factor to guide how far it should go. I think there are limits, and yet society needs to kick back and stop making it feel so taboo.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love reading the stories and think it helped me work up the courage to say things I wouldn’t have and act on things like staring at her cleavage and getting away with it.
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