Current location: Colorado
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? One of my best friends got married last spring, and a good chunk of the attendees were our college friends who were excited to get classy and party in the woods. She knew I was looking to get laid (and was fully supportive of making that happen) and mentioned that I should keep a look out for her fiancé’s (hot, single) high school friends at the wedding. I spotted said friends near the keg at the reception, which gave me a pretty easy excuse to approach them and start a conversation. There was one in particular who was pretty much a caricature of one of my types — tall, skinny, kind of grungy, rocking a mullet and a cardigan, may or may not have recently lost a tooth in a bike accident. He was funny and seemed like he might be down, so I figured I’d feel it out.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had been talking a bit earlier in the evening, and I had it in the back of my mind that I’d try to find him again at some point that night. Later on I saw him smoking outside with some other friends, so I went out to join them. He offered up a joint and I was the only other person who expressed interest, so we walked out on the lawn to smoke it. We ended up drinking and talking there for a while, to the point where it felt like it was dragging on a little and if nothing was going to happen I wanted to head back to the party. I decided to get direct and told him that I wanted to make out but didn’t want to be on view for all my friends to see, so maybe we could wander somewhere else. He agreed and suggested we walk towards where his tent was (some of the guests were camping nearby, though I was staying at a hotel with friends). We walked up a path and started making out against a tree. He was a sexy kisser and we had our hands all over each other pretty quickly. We heard some people coming down the path so we stopped and kind of laughed at ourselves, surprised/impressed at how into it we were. We figured that was a less than ideal location so he led me over to the camping area and what turned out to be his one-person tent, which was hilariously small. We agreed that it was kind of ridiculous but we were willing to try and make it work, so we crawled into his tiny tent and picked up where we left off.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After we got into the tent he had his hands up my dress pretty quickly, so I helped him take it off and took off his sweater and shirt as well. I hadn’t necessarily expected to do anything more than make out with this guy, but his hands were amazing, he was kissing my breasts, and I was incredibly turned on so was happy to modify my plans. I got on top of him and took off his pants, but it quickly became clear that the tent was too small for me to sit more upright while straddling him. He got back on top of me, pulled down my underwear and started going down on me… again, the dude was talented. While still eating me out he reached down and put his fingers inside of me when he could tell I was getting close and I came, hard. We rummaged around for his pants so he could find a condom, and then he got back on top of me and we started fucking. There wasn’t a lot of room to move around, but that just forced a lot of close body contact, which suited us fine. Not long after we started we heard drunk laughter nearby and the crackling of a bonfire, and it became clear that some other people camping there for the night had come back to hang out. Having realized this, we looked at each other in amusement and wondered if we should stop, but quickly agreed it was too good not to keep going. Having to stay silent while he was fucking me only made it hotter, and we started whispering fiercely dirty things to each other, pulling hair, him pinning my arms, etc, until he came.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and yes. I would have made more of an effort to come again but the tent logistics and arrival of outsiders made it an impractical option.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom and I use birth control. Humorously, we did end up briefly discussing STI history because he couldn’t find the condom when he pulled out and expressed some concern. It basically just allowed us to both share that we were sex positive/committed to sexual health, had gotten tested somewhat recently, and that I was using reliable contraception. It was kind of a nice moment to further affirm my assumptions about this person I didn’t know at all.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Wanted to get laid, was attracted to this person, was turned on by the idea of a covert outdoor hookup at a party.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yeah, we’d both been drinking and smoked some weed so were tipsy, but neither of us was overly intoxicated.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I could hear the party bus idling on the road to take people back to the hotel, so there wasn’t a lot of time for post-coital laying around. I somehow managed to get my dress on and crawled out of the tent so he had room to get dressed. The bonfire was probably 50 feet away and if anyone noticed me they didn’t acknowledge it, so I walked into the dark behind the tent to put my underwear on and pull myself together, where I also located the condom stuck in my snatch. We walked back to the party and grabbed a glass of wine downstairs before finding our friends. He asked if I was around the next day but I told him I had to head back to school, so we smiled, agreed that it was really great to meet each other, kissed, and went our separate ways. I thought about friending him on facebook or something but did not, and do not expect our paths will cross again. I don’t even know that he remembered my name at the end of the night — I only knew his because my friend reminded me the next day.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Well, my friends are pretty smart people so it didn’t take them long to figure out where I’d been the past hour and a half. I filled them in on a few deets as we walked back to the bus and they were all proud/impressed with me and my sexy tent sex — especially the bride, who loves few things more than living vicariously through her friends’ hookups.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Absolutely. I think we both approached our encounter with the same general goal and were happy with how it turned out.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I do not. I only regret that we had to finish quickly and that I wasn’t staying another day so it could have happened again.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: the covertness of the hookup, how good in bed he was, and the fact that it had the anonymity of a true one-night stand but with someone who I knew I could trust
Worst: that fucking child-size tent
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Revisiting this really makes me want to have sex outdoors again — new summer goal?
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