Current location: Cape Town
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Forensic Scientist
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this Texas man at a bar in town. He is honestly the most good looking guy i have ever seen naked. We only hooked up the night after meeting and had spent the evening together. It all happened very fast and at first i felt that i was being too easy, but this was something i wanted too, so to hell with that. Also, he was leaving the next day. Because of his looks, which may seem shallow, I can’t stop thinking about this man and have unrealistic hopes for something more to happen one day but actual fact we may not actually get on at all!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He instigated it in the bar and lead us to his hotel room… I think planning was invloved on his side!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Oral sex and vaginal sex. It felt amazing but he eventually insisted on me on top and for some reason, it hurts to do so, so that was awkward. Afterwards he was the one wanting to snuggle more than me!
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I came close and he did climax
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None..
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was in the mood and this man was ridiculously good looking.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Some alcohol, not as much on my side.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We have been in contact occasionally… I would love more to come form it but know its unrealistic
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Quite a few people and all seem happy for me 🙂
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yessss
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Hell no
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best – Having the sexiest man ever…
worst – Having the sexiest man ever and he went back home the next day 🙁
Yes… it has proven to me it is very hard to have sex without more feeling coming out of it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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