Current location: Auckland , New Zealand
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? 24yrs
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friend with benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Amanda was a bigger girl, slightly younger than myself. She had recently shifted in as flat mate to some friend’s so didn’t know her personally till then.
Being a small town every one knew of everyone and she worked at local bank by my flat.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was a cold winters Thursday night, my flatmate Pete was across road at the pub so was a quiet TV night and beer by myself.
The pub was quiet so tipped out the few in to close early and Pete came home about 10:30pm with Amanda. He had invited her over for a drink and intent on scoring her for the night. Pete was a weird one, he had the gift of talk and shifty moves.
He left her with me in lounge and vanished outside for a while, not sure where but I believe he used to stash some dope under our house for special occasions.
I got talking, one thing lead to another and we kissed and went into my room closing door.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was not very experienced in the ways or needs of women back then so the night was simple, after feeling her up, slipping my fingers inside her we basically did missionary most of the night, occasionally her on top as well.
We actually fucked so much she hurt in the morning when we woke.
I sneaked her out about 530am into my car and dropped her off just up the road from friends house as my car was very distinctive in looks and sound so not to get caught out by my friends.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes many times both of us.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No precautions were taken and the next week she popped in to say she was not on pill etc.
This made both us a bit quiet for a few more weeks till she tested clear.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Absolute chance! She was horny and possibly I was better than Pete who bought her home.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I was slightly but im sure she was also intoxicated.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After this we hooked up a few more times on the quiet but soon decided to call it quits.
I would see her all the time but as she was asked to leave my friends house as she was a lousy flatmate, she was no longer in my circle of people.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one ever knew..
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Definitely consensual
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? It was a learning curve and yes after possible preg scare I did regret it.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing was sex of which I was not getting much however as she was not exactly liked by my friends plus I had pinched my flatemate Petes hookup.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I saw her many years later, and we just had a laugh about it all.
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