by Richard Thicke

Gender: Male
Age: 44
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Oregon
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Sales
Relationship status: Dating someone
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? Not at all
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? I am very sexual and love sex. I have only been in a handful of committed relationships. I prefer loving many and experiencing different sexual acts.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 400+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The 18 Year Old

How long ago did this hookup happen? I was 38, so 6 years ago (I like younger women)

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this girl on adult friend finder. I love African American girls.  It’s a silly saying but it is very true to me, “once you go black, you won’t go back.” I have always admired black women. I find them to be beautiful and I think it came to me at a very young age. I have been with a handful of black women up to this point, but this girl was different. I felt a little nervous at first, but after we met, all anxiety and awkwardness went away.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hook-up began in my car. What led to it was discussions over chat. She invited me over and I went. I am a risk taker. I get a thrill from new places. She asked me to come over and I did.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We drove around for a bit and eventually I found a place to park. She completely undressed and pulled out my cock and began to suck my dick like no woman ever had. She went all the way down my 8 inch cock and loved it. I had never had a blow job like that. I lasted about 1 minute tops. She said I tasted delicious and asked if I could go again. I said absolutely. I Immediately placed a condom on my cock because I didn’t lose sensation. I pounded her in the front seat of my car. Over and over. She came so much I lost count. She made me get out of the car and do her doggie style and I obliged. I had to keep my hand over her mouth and keep her quiet so she wouldn’t wake anyone.  After ten or so orgasms, I finally came.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both did. I had two, she had about 15 that I counted.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? She told me she got tested every 3-6 months. I shared the same. I wore a condom every time.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I love sex. I love spontaneity and I love anyplace but the bedroom for sex.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None, ever. Completely sober sex every time.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We felt great. We continued to hook up randomly for 6 months. I felt great and so did she.  Neither of us minded the age difference and we had mind blowing sex. We were able to grow with each other and even managed to do some threesomes. Guy-Guy girl and girl girl me. I would have loved to have continued to see her, but she moved away for college. Somewhere to the South. I was sad but all good things sometimes come to an end. I think about her all the time and hope she is doing great!

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t tell anyone. I keep my secrets to myself.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Absolutely. She loved sex just as much as I did and we always had a good time together.  I made her feel special not only in the bedroom, but out and about.  She said I was different than the other guys that she had been with.  I think we began to develop feelings and truly respect one another, which is another reason the sex was so amazing.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not one bit. Would do it again tomorrow.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Consensual, anxious, anywhere, anytime. The worst was when she went away. This sex makes me appreciate the journey. It’s not everyday you have amazing sex and chemistry with someone. I still love sex and appreciate all the great times we had. I think it has made me appreciate sex that much more. I have been with women of varied ages (18-55) and they all have a different style and things that make them tick. It made me appreciate women that much more.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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