What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? South Africa
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Business Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Spiritual
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Intimate, sensual and always horny
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The 2:00am Visitor

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mr. C is a tall, blonde and athletically built guy with a big smile and delicious lips. We met on Tinder and established that we were both not looking for anything serious. We arranged to meet at a public place on Sunday (as a safety precaution for me) and that we would most likely end up going back to my place for sex. Some steamy sexting during the week made me so horny that I barely slept that entire week. I was excited to meet him!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I spent a chilled Friday night at home and received a message on Tinder (well after midnight) from Mr. C asking if I was still awake. We were both very horny…. I decided I could not wait until the Sunday for him so I texted him my home address. I occupied myself by shaving my legs and choosing something to wear while he was on the way to me – this was by far one of the riskiest things I have ever done!

He arrived at my house at about 2:00 am in the morning and boy were we nervous! We decided to have a  drink to calm ourselves down a bit instead of launching in which I nervously scrounged around for. At one point, I felt him behind me reaching for a bottle I was too short to get and I suddenly felt excited (and wet) that I would be having sex with him that night. We sat on the couch with our drinks and started chatting. We both started easing up and I felt comfortable with him quickly. I started getting impatient so I asked him if he wanted to make out and that’s where things started to get heated….

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing on the couch and immediately his hands were all over my thighs going higher and higher up so I got up he followed me kissing me all the way to my bedroom. I remember being agonizingly horny as I started to undress him. He realized I cheekily wasn’t wearing any underwear underneath my nightie and started fingering my already wet and swollen pussy.

We got each other completely naked and ended up on the bed, his head between my legs. He licked my pussy and alternated using his fingers and tongue in me, it didn’t take me long to come when he stroked me from the inside with his finger and was sucking hard on my clit.

He got on top of me and started rubbing his dick against my wet lips torturing me into wanting more. I kept urging him to put on a condom which he eventually did and he finally thrust his big dick inside of me. We fucked missionary style and again, it did not take long for me to come.

Wanting to return the favor, I got on top of him but we started having trouble keeping the condom on which was killing the mood. We had a quick chat about the last time we were tested and I felt safe to continue without a condom. So I got on top of him and rode him until we both came, really loving the feeling of him throbbing and oozing inside of me. We had a bit of a breather after that.

We continued to fool around, kiss, touch, lick and have sex throughout the night. I managed to get him to come again in my mouth while I jerked him off and sucked him dry. We eventually went to sleep just before it started to get light out.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He stayed over that night and we had sex again that morning and even showered together. We hooked up a few times that weekend (even after a date I had!). We continue to hook up and get on very well as friends. We are honest with one another and it works for us both.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have told a few friends and they are supportive (I am friendlier when I am getting laid)

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The whole experience was amazing but I if I have to say, I really like Mr. C’s stamina and his oral sex skills are mind-blowing

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I have always been all for casual sex provided it is done in a safe and consensual way. I love being a sexual being and the experience just makes me crave sex more.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I believe that casual sex, like anything addictive, exists to fill some sort of emotional void where a person feels they may be lacking. What is healthy about having sex instead of taking in substances like alcohol and drugs are that it forces you to be present in that moment, away from your thoughts and woes. Apart from the fact that it is exciting and that sex feels good, sex is a physiological need and outside of the confines of a committed and monogamous relationship – it is difficult to get that same level of emotional and physiological satisfaction. So I am all for it… it has made a positive difference for me until that void gets filled “organically”.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love this site – some of the stories really make me wet my panties

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